BFN 😭

[Core]

So tested this morning, didn’t have a great feeling as have had spotting since 5dp5dt and a BFN. I’ve always been down as unexplained although we did need ICSI, so back to wondering if there’s something wrong with me and that’s why it won’t implant??i spoke to clinic today and apparently they will have a team around the patient meeting and then decide if I need to go back to clinic or can got straight for a treatment planning meeting with next frostie. Is it strange that I might not be talking it through with a Doctor unless I ask to? Would they not need to know any symptoms I had?

[Kitcat12]

Oh lovely I’m so sorry to read this! It does seem odd that you wouldn’t discuss your cycle, if you have questions I would really push to discuss it with someone x

[MissSaoPaulo]

I'm so sorry to hear this hon, what a shame. I do hope you can get some answers and change things up for next time xxx

[Core]

Thanks ladies, yes I think I will speak to the Doctor see if they can think of why it failed and if I could do anything differently xx

[Kitcat12 in reply to Core]

They’ll probably say that you did everything perfectly but at least you’ll have had the chance to ask your questions!! Chin up my lovely xx

[Core in reply to Kitcat12]

Thank you, yes I agree you always feel better after being reassured by a Doctor xx

[hannahding]

I am extremely sorry to know about this. I am sure it must be heartbreaking for you. It is weird that the clinic is saying that. I think there needs to be a meeting with the doctor. I would suggest you tell them that you would want to meet the doctor. It is important to have the discussion. Good luck! Don't lose hope.

[Core in reply to hannahding]

Thank you, yes I agree I want to know if this is the 'unexplained' problem!! Xx

[Lou7744]

Hi there, I’m sorry to hear about your bfn, they are truly rubbish 💕 xx

[Core in reply to Lou7744]

Thank you, it's really not the end to the year I was hoping for but we have some frosties so hoping next year will be our year 🤞xx

[Lou7744 in reply to Core]

That’s good to hear that you’ve got some Frosties. Wishing you loads of luck for your next attempt 💕 xx

[Tugsgirl]

Sorry to read of your bfn. They don’t get any easier 😔 xx

[Core in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you xx

[Kyell2]

So sorry it wasn’t good news for you today.

It sounds like you already have half a plan for the next round already which is fab news. Although I agree you should ask to speak with the Dr first to see if any adjustments are needed before you start xx

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Hi Core,I am right with you.xxxx💔🤗💕😘

[everhopeful83]

Sorry for your BFN💗sending hugs xx

[Dunla]

I’m very sorry to hear this. I would definitely ask for a review appointment. It’s important for you to have an opportunity to discuss your cycle, the concerns you have and the best way forward for you xx

[Core in reply to Dunla]

Thank you, yes I don’t want to waste another frostie if there are things that need to be fixed xx