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So I had failed IVF cycle, a period, no sex in that next cycle, then my period was late. We were on holiday last week when I was due on and this morning took a test, AND THIS HAPPENED!!!!!

Firstly, how the absolute f**k???

And secondly, how the absolute f**k???

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Congratulations xx

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XxjustmexX

Congratulations xx

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kirstyblue

Oh my god! Congratulations xx

I’m sure ivf triggers natural pregnancies- I have two colleagues at work who this exact thing happened to. Also happened to my podiatrist and have seen it several times on here. I wish someone would research it! Congratulations!

What a lovely surprise for you, huge congratulations. Enjoy this moment it’s so magical .It took me a while to sink in that I was pregnant!!! xoxo 😘

Ooh my lordy, that's awesome. Congrats, absolutely brilliant xxx

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Cinderella5

Holy moly this is brilliant! How very exciting....maybe the bleed you had wasnt an actual period....anyway dont question it too much, a positive is a positive! Woo hoo.xxx

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Shannon1400

This happened to me too. Biggest supprise ever. Congratulations x

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Olivia80 in reply to Shannon1400

Hi Shannon, I’m pleased to hear someone else has had this too.

We’re just waiting for the clinic to open to see if we can get a scan today after pulling a shock sick day 🙈

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Shannon1400 in reply to Olivia80

Miracles do happen trust me. My baby was coming at 24 weeks. Was told to terminate. I refused and 6 weeks later after total hospital bestest I was induced. Now he is doing brill despite being 10 weeks early.

That's brilliant. So happy for you, congratulations xx

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Twobaby

Hi Olivia congratulations ...

Did u get ur scan?? What wer d results??

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Olivia80 in reply to Twobaby

Was straight onto the clinic at 9am this morning. Managed to get a scan at 4.30pm today so gotta wait all day to find out

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All the best with your scan, hope it goes well. Will be thinking of you xoxo

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runsoncuddles

This is amazing, enjoy every minute of it. What a lovely surprise . Congratulations xx

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Kyell2

Wow, how brilliant is that! Hope the scan goes well xx

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Masha111

What a lovely surprise! Things happen when you least expect it. Congratulations to you both. Good luck at the scan. You must still be in shock? But a happy shock xx

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Klndmr

Amazing surprise! Congratulations and keep us updated xxz So happy for you 😍😍❤❤❤

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AS100

Massive congratulations!! 💖 great surprise! xxx

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Lou7744

Wow!! That’s amazing. So chuffed for you both 💕 xx

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Stacia

woooow this is a beautiful miracle surprise. xxx

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Waterfall2

What a wonderful surprise. Congratulations.

Wow that’s incredible! Congratulations! x

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WeeMrsH

Could it be your IVF didn’t fail and you’re much further now than you’d normally expect? Oh this is so exciting!! Good luck x

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Olivia. Sperm can be sneaky little things and live for quite a few days, hiding in your tubes, so who knows??? Lovely news, so I hope all continues to go well. Diane

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Dolly8

Hi, so basically the failed ivf was because you had a negative test and then a ‘normal’ period? I ask because basically I have just done a round of IVF and failed test on OTD and had a very heavy bleed but have had a positive test since and HCG rising. Can people really have periods and remain pregnant?? I’m so confused.

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Dolly8 in reply to Dolly8

Sorry I forgot to say congratulations. Xx

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Olivia80 in reply to Dolly8

That is seemingly what happened, yes. But I didn’t know until 10days late for next period and just took a test out of interest as I’m never late and was just assuming I was because of IVF messing up your system.

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Dolly8 in reply to Olivia80

Wow. You have given me so much hope. Sorry to be graphic but was the AF you had like normal period? Have you had an HCG blood yet? Or a scan? Do keep us posted. Wishing you all the very best xxx

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Olivia80 in reply to Dolly8

Just killing time waiting for a scan at 4.30 🙈

AF was 4 days long, as normal, but perhaps slightly lighter. Certainly enough to think anything wouldn’t survive in there!

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Dolly8 in reply to Olivia80

God. I will be thinking good things for you at 4.30 xx

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Kitcat12

Wow amazing, congratulations lovely! A woman’s body is such a mystery. Hope the scan goes well! Keep us posted x

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Autumnmoon

Wow! Congratulations! What amazing news! Good luck for your scan x

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AJJ123

Baby Jesus?xx

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AJJ123 in reply to AJJ123

Congratulations xx

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baby2016

This is amazing!!! Maybe your bleed was implantation instead! Keep us posted, good luck with the scan xx

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Rowly88

Congratulations, wonderful news xx

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Olivia80

Hi everyone, not quite the update I wanted to be posting.

There’s no pregnancy.

There may be a non viable pregnancy lurking, or small ectopic but they couldn’t see any obvious cause so have an urgent referral to hospital tomorrow 🙄

Thanks for all your well wishes.

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Kitcat12 in reply to Olivia80

Oh bless you, that is awful news. I’m so sorry 😔 Chin up my love x

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SConnor in reply to Olivia80

So sorry to read this after the initial excitement :( I really hope this is simple to be managed and you can carry on with your journey very soon. So sad this was not the amazing surprise we were all hoping for, but you'll get there. I had an awful 2017 including MCs but got my BFP this year after IVF. Make sure you allow some time to heal your mind and not just your body, all these emotions are terribly intense. All the best xxx

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Oh I’m so sorry. Could it be too soon to scan? Absolutely devastated for you. Had a loss myself last year, it’s truly heartbreaking. I hope you have lots of support around you. xoxo

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The sonographer estimated we’d be 9+5 so it would have been very obvious. Thanks x

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💔😢 So sorry xoxo

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Dolly8 in reply to Olivia80

So sorry honey. Xx

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AS100 in reply to Olivia80

Oh gosh I’m so sorry to read this xxxxx ❤️❤️❤️

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Cinderella5 in reply to Olivia80

Awww I'm so sorry after everything today! Totally gutted for you! Love & hugs.xx

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Lizzielizzielizzie in reply to Olivia80

I’m so sorry xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Olivia80

I’m sorry. I was just reading through your post and replies, I was so intrigued and then I saw your update. I’m so sorry xx

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Dunla in reply to Olivia80

Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. Good luck at the hospital tomorrow xx

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Kempton

Sorry to read that Olivia. Hope you can take some time with your partner to get through this. X

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MrsAdzee

Sorry to read this xxx

I am so so sorry to read this. After such excitement too. I hope it happens for you soon xx

Literally gutted for you.. I was so convinced that good things happen sometimes, sending hugs xx

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Masha111

So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you x

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