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So I woke up at 4am this morning with heavy bleeding and pains in my stomach. I called the clinic and they told me to go in for a scan.

They said they can see a sac but it looks like it’s collapsed and nothing within the sac, they can’t confirm a MC as my womb is not empty but said they would expect me to continue to bleed and I should return in a week to confirm a MC.

I really don’t know how am feeling right now and how to react!! Has anyone else been in this situation?

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I’m so sorry for your loss.💔😢

I had a chemical pregnancy last year ( @4.5 weeks) & by the time I was scanned the content was gone 😢so I didn’t need re scanning.

Some of the ladies may have also been this heartbreaking situation & maybe able to shed some light than I can.

I hope you have lots of support around you. When I had my loss I felt completely numb & shell shocked by it. Again I’m so sorry you are going through this 😢 xoxo it

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genten

So sorry to read this. I can't imagine.

I've not got to this stage so I can't advise.

Sending you so much love. Xxx

I’m going through something similar. Have to have another scan later this week.

Give yourself time. Take good care. Thinking of you ❤️

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Lexigrace2017

Omg I'm so sorry for what ur going thru hun sending hugs your way stay strong hunni xx

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry to hear this Stacy! Thinking of you both!xx

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Dunla

Stacey I’m so sorry. I haven’t been in your situation but I just wanted to send you love xx

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Lisaworthy1981

I’m so sorry to hear this, sending big hugs and thinking of you xx

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Sweets1

So sorry to hear this, thinking of you xx

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Autumnmoon

Oh bless you thinking of you and sending love x

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Thinking of you x

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staceymac83

Thanks very much ladies, all your kind words certainly helps ❤️ xx

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Tugsgirl

How horrible Stacey. I feel for you xx

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Orla9298

I’m so sorry xxxx ❤️

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry about this so sad look after u xx

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Marietay

So sorry to read this stacey 💕 xxx

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Babyblues1

So sorry to read this. I can’t even start to imagine how you feel.

Big hugs and stay strong xxx

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Mifkipi

So sorry to be reading this :( take care and sending you strength x

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Mantaray75

So sorry to hear you're going through this.

I had a big bleed around 7 weeks with clots. The scan showed an empty sac with an irregular shape and blood all around it. I was told I would continue to bleed and was booked in for a D&C.

However, my hcg was still rising (what is yours doing?) which made me hesitate. I waited a week and then the scan showed a heartbeat.

I'm now 16+5 weeks.

There is still hope.

x

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staceymac83 in reply toMantaray75

They didn’t take any bloods to check my hcg levels 😳

Thanks for your positive story ❤️ xx

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Italy16

Really sorry to read this. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks, started bleeding then cramps..light for the first few days and then got heavier so had a scan and they said my dates didn’t match up..but they couldn’t confirm a miscarriage. I had to go back in a week where they confirmed the miscarriage..as there had been no growth progression from the week before. It’s an absolutely heartbreaking time but you will get through this xx

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staceymac83 in reply toItaly16

❤️❤️ xx

How awful for you. I am really sorry to read this. Xxx

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Leesara

Sorry to hear this. Take it easy

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Purple_star

So sorry to hear this. Look after yourself and I hope you do get some positive news soon. ❤️

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hifer

Really really sorry to hear this. I haven't been in this exact situation but I miscarried last week. Lost the heartbeat between 7-9 weeks. My sac was actually too big in the second scan but the baby wasn't growing within it. I would say that I'm surprised that they cannot confirm that you will miscarry though / will need a D & C. I would have thought size of sac and baby would be enough of an indicator. However I don't know enough about it so perhaps you need to go back in a week for another scan? Thinking of you. It's truly a terrible time. x

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Osayuwa

I am so sorry to hear this, please take it easy on yourself, relax and stay positive. It's not over yet.

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notifbutwhen

Hi Stacey,

Simular thing happened to me. But one week it was there heart beating next week no heart beat and stopped growing. My clinic took me off meds and then it happened. Only a couple of weeks ago. It is so hard struggling myself to deal with it. We are all here for you. Xxx

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EmJen

I am so sorry to read this, it’s just such a heartbreaking time. We had a missed MC at 8 weeks, and it is so hard going. Make sure to be kind to yourself, take the time you need (and then take some more). Sending you lots of love xxxxxx

Hi Stacey, I haven't been in the same situation but I did go through a MMC the end of Aug and was back and forth from the hospital for scans.Sending you lots of hugs, I really hope that everything works out for you, take care of yourself and try and take each day at a time xx

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