Bleeding and miscarried 😢

[JeSs8819]

How can something that was apart of me for just a month leave such sorrow.

Viability scan was booked for tomorrow (4th).

Last Saturday woke up feeling like I had no energy at all. Went to the loo and noticed bleeding. Contacted my emergency out of hours number who told me to call the hospital on Monday when open to bring scan forward.

Long story short the hospital wouldn’t scan me on Tuesday so I paid for a private scan.

They couldn’t see a sac or baby. So referred me to my local EPU who did hcg and more scans yesterday.

They are monitoring me as they worry it could be an ectopic pregnancy (although I believe it passed on Saturday).

EPU tomorrow for second blood test to confirm.

Feeling a little down in the dumps.

Sorry for moaning on but I didn’t want to not update. Good luck to all those still in the game and I wish you healthy happy pregnancies xx

[Keepingfaith85]

I'm so sorry 😔 that's just awful. Be extra kind to yourself and take things day by day, I'm sure the ladies here can relate and give you lots of support xxxx

[hifer]

So so sorry to hear this. Take lots of time out for yourself at this time and take good care of yourself. Sending love xx

[Cinderella5]

I'm so sorry sweetheart!😪 I had something similar with my first pregnancy and its devastating. Glad to hear that you're being well looked after. Sending lots of hugs.xxx

[Stato]

Oh Jess, this is heartbreaking. You do all you need to in order to grieve. Hope you have a good support network around you who will understand. Don’t give up x

[Twiglet2]

So sorry Jess My heart is broken for you 😢 take some time to grieve and be kind to yourself. It’s such a tough thing to hear but even tougher when you had to fight so hard for an answer xx

[Jezzabelle]

I’m so sorry hun ☹️. As the others say, be kind to yourself, and allow yourself time to process everything. I can only imagine how tough it has been, but you’re strong, so you’ve got this 💪 OTD for me today but I knew I was out of the game this cycle last night because I started bleeding yesterday pm and it gradually got heavier . Was our first cycle and we don’t have any on ice so going to have to face another fresh cycle😔 xx

[JeSs8819 in reply to Jezzabelle]

Awwwww so sorry to hear wasn’t the best news for you. We used our 2 frozen babies so would need to be a fresh cycle for us but I just don’t know if I can do it again anytime soon. It’s just so disheartening isn’t it. Xx you also need to be kind to yourself and take the time you need to come to terms with everything. Ivf is a bitch on mental health xx

[Jezzabelle in reply to JeSs8819]

Thanks hun 💞 IVF is definitely a massive mental challenge and the tww is the hardest part I reckon!

I know exactly how you feel! I I said to my husband last night I’m not sure I can do another fresh cycle and started looking at which horse I should buy instead 😂 However, having already paid for another one with an access fertility package, I’m kinda already signed up to it, so we have a follow up appt with the doctor tomorrow. Just give yourself time and see how you feel in a few days/weeks. Although, it’s still so raw, I think we are going to get in to it as soon as we can as no point delaying the inevitable... silver lining is I can enjoy a glass of vino or 2 when we go away with our friends for the weekend in a couple of weeks! #tryingtofindthepositives xx

[JeSs8819 in reply to Jezzabelle]

My days I could do with a large glass of wine I won’t lie I just feel sick still haha. I think In any case, as women who have been through it we always look for positives and that’s how we cope. My family are amazed with the way I cope but I say I literally have no other choice. Things could always be worse (just wished once they were better). If I was automatically signed as a package I would probably be ready to roll sooner rather than later I’ve now got to think financially as well as emotionally 😢 my sister keeps saying your one of these that spend how much money and fall naturally. Kind of hope she is right hahaha xx

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Im so sorry. Its just isnt fair at all. All those hopes shattered. It is a B as you said. This might not be what you want to hear but im 💯 sure that you will dust your self off and recover from this. Sending loads of hugs. X

[JeSs8819]

Thank all you lovely ladies for taking the time to message. This website has been so ideal for me when searching everything I just didn’t want to leave things open. Good luck and god bless all with healthy pregnancies xx

[Facingreality in reply to JeSs8819]

I hope things worked out for you in the end, JeSs8819

[JeSs8819 in reply to Facingreality]

Still undergoing tests my lovely. Then try again. So sorry to ready your bad news. Fingers crossed all works out for you. Be kind to yourself and time to heal xx