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Hoping for a miracle 🤞🏻

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So I had a 3rd scan today and as much as possible I prepared myself for bad news. Knowing the gestational sac was very small and empty last week I expected to be taken out of this cruel state of limbo and told it was all over, to stop the medication and let the miscarriage happen.

But...

The gestational sac is still small, hasn’t grown how they would expect in a week and they can see a significant bleed which explains my pain and bleeding twice last week. But today there was a yolk sac and a tiny fetal pole. No heartbeat but could be it’s too small.

So...

They’ve told me things don’t look good as the development is so slow. They gave me the option to stop the meds and let nature happen or have a repeat scan next week.

I’ve chosen to have the scan next week and carry on with the meds for now. I know it will be a miracle but I have to give this little one every chance. They’ve told me that due to the bleed I could miscarry at any time. It’s out of my control anyway and at least I’ll know I’ve done everything possible for this precious little one.

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Cinderella5

Oh wow Ive been wondering how you were getting on! Im praying for a miracle for you too next week, you have absolutely done your best!xx

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Thank you ❤️

Oh how difficult. I know how you feel as I went through similar - not the same - earlier this year. It is so hard with all the waiting until next scan. Don't give up - sending you lots of wishes and best of luck xxx

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Arya10

I’m so sorry you’re going through this pain of not knowing, you are doing everything possibly to give this little one a chance, and I’m sure we’d all do the same in your position. When there is hope there is real possibility! I’m keeping everything crossed for you that the little one is just taking his or her time about showing up properly xx

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Everything crossed for you lovely. Big hugs xxx

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Masha111

You havent given up, you have hope. Miracles do happen and usually when you least expect it. Know that we are thinking of you and praying for you. You did the right thing. Lots of love and wish you get the good news you have longed for at your scan ❤🤞

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Shil11

I am praying for a miracle for you! Xxx

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londonrc

Keeping fingers and toes crossed for you for next week- miracles do happen! X

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Mifkipi

Really hoping for a miracle for you!! Don't lose hope x

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Klndmr

Im praying for you as well. Sending you lots of luck and hugs and i hope with all my heart you get some good news next week! ❤❤❤❤

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genten

Aww. I don't blame you, keep going until things are 100% either way.

So so hoping and praying this is your miracle 💖💖

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Thank you ❤️

Praying for your miracle xxx

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Sweets1

Thinking of you! Crossing everything xx

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Hollibob

I would opt for the same as you x

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TRYING2016

I completely agree, its not something you want to accept but you need to do everything you could have without feeling bad after. I really hope its a miracle next week my heart breaks for you xxxxxx

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emmab178

Thinking of you and sending positive vibes x

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romaluna2015

Thinking of you xxx

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Simsimo

Hey there. How are you doing? I hope you are feeling better. This is so good to hear from you. This is so impressive. You are trying to stay positive. This is what everyone should do. I hope you will get what you want. Don't forget to share more. Sharing makes you feel better. I would love to hear more from you. My best wishes are with you. Stay strong and healthy. More power to you. Love and hugs to you. Baby dust on your way.

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