IVF Journey is over

[Kama41]

So with sadness our IVF journey is nearly over. I went for a follow up pregnancy scan after my 7 week scan wasn’t conclusive. Today there seemed to be something still in the sac but the nurse just couldn’t make it out. Unfortunately after reviewing with the consultant I have been told to stop my medication. They don’t believe there is anything there that will grow now. I have been referred to the EPU next week for a follow up scan. I have been told that I am now likely to bleed but does anyone know if this will be the miscarriage or just a withdrawal bleed from the meds? I’m guess if I do bleed then the scan next week will confirm if it is cleared or if I don’t bleed they will confirm what the next steps will be. It’s all a bit much to take in right now. Is a glass of wine acceptable now at this stage?

[2-shades-of-hope]

I’m so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself in this awful situation. With my first pregnancy I was told that I may miscarry before my EPU appointment and did the night before. It was a natural miscarriage and was much more intense than a withdrawal bleed, although I was a little further along. It was difficult but manageable. Absolutely have that glass of wine xx

[Kama41 in reply to 2-shades-of-hope]

Thank you x

[Solly-44]

Oh lovely, I’m so sorry. I can’t offer any advice but sending you hugs. A glass of wine is definitely in order. Xx

[Kama41 in reply to Solly-44]

Thank you x

[Babyjoshua]

I’m so sorry, I can’t offer any advice but sending lots of warm hugs. A glass of wine am not sure until ur clear.

[Kama41 in reply to Babyjoshua]

Thank you x

[Hollibob]

Sorry you are going through this.

Yes, they are probably hoping that by stopping the meds you will have a natural miscarriage and they will check if everything has cleared by itself.

If not, they might give you some more time or plan a medication approach/procedure to remove.

I started spotting not long after, but went to my acupuncture lady to see if she could speed things up, which she did.

Look after yourself x

[Kama41 in reply to Hollibob]

Thank you x

[CLou21]

Im so sorry that you are going through this, YES a glass of wine (or two) are certainly in order!

I really am sorry things havent gone to plan for you xx

[Kama41 in reply to CLou21]

Thank you x

[runsoncuddles]

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending you lots of love xx

[Kama41 in reply to runsoncuddles]

Thank you x

[Hidden]

Sorry to hear your sad news. Take some time to heal.xx

[Kama41 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks x

[Hidden]

Such horrible news I am so sorry, a bottle of wine is in order not just a glass x

[Core]

So so sorry to read this, sending big hugs xx

[Noah1981]

You poor love a glass of wine is more than acceptable I mean have a bottle .This is actually heart wrenching I’m sending you masses of hugs and kisses and I hope the passing if we can call it that is as painless physically as it can be although I’m sure the emotional pain is even worse .I feel for you darling look after yourself and I hope all goes ok for you 😢 xx

[Kama41 in reply to Noah1981]

Thank you so much x

[Elynn]

So sorry. 🌻

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this, sending lots of hugs and definitely have a glass or 2 you deserve it with everything you are going through, take care of yourself and each other during this difficult time hun 😘 xx💕

[Shelleybean]

Really sorry to hear this, you must be heartbroken 💔 I was wary too about having a glass of wine when told was going to miscarry, but I say do whatever you need to do to look after yourself right now. Sending you lots of love and strength to get through this 💖 xx

[Kama41 in reply to Shelleybean]

Thank you x

[Lots8788]

So sorry!! Big hugs to you and I say "yes!" to the wine! look after yourself,take it easy x x

[Dreamingofbaby]

Sorry to hear this hun. Not easy at all. Take good care xx