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I should be over the moon but... on the contrary!

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Hi ladies,

Sorry to annoy you when I’m always down...

I avoided the site to try and focus on me and our current FET.

I should be over the moon, because I got for the first time ever in my life a BFP after more than 4 years ttc but no...

I asked to get the blood test done, as my hubby was not convinced by the pregnancy tests...

Got the test done Monday, positive, so happier, but they ask me to come back yesterday. And yesterday the nurse tells me that my hormon levels are reducing, I asked any concerns and she ask me to come again end of next week. So panick!!!! Yes, I did check on internet but I don’t have spotting or cramping...

Am I doing already a miscarriage? I told my husband indeed that I had less pregnancy symptoms but hoping I’m getting used to the hormons...

I called the hospital back as I want a doctor to explain me what’s going on? And to advise what can be done? Increase other hormons...?

Please ladies tell me what you experienced, as I’m so stressed now and don’t know how to relax again.

Every step of the way seems to be a challenge for us... But yes, there is a bit of progress...

Thanks for your help!

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If they’re referring to your hcg levels dropping then I don’t know why they would wait until the end of next week. Hcg should double every 48-72hrs.. Sadly it is possible that if your levels are dropping instead of increasing it could be a chemical pregnancy. I really hope not. I hope you get hold of someone from the hospital soon who can give you some reassurance xx

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Thanks hun!

How are you doing?

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I’m not too bad. Please keep us posted won’t you? xx

I’m so sorry but if your HCG levels are decreasing it’s likely you are having a chemical pregnancy which is a very early miscarriage.

I hate to say that and I know from experience how awful it is. I had a chemical pregnancy last year . I had bleeding & cramping a day after our longed for positive test. It’s just so heartbreaking isn’t it. I have chosen to see it as progress as we did conceive after 6 years of TTC and not being able to.

Hope you hear soon from the hospital who can clarify what’s going on sorry you’re going through this xoxo

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Thanks Jess, not reassuring indeed!

They ask me to come and check hormons level only next week! Does it sound weird to you?

I sent a mail to the doctor for him to advise.

Thanks for your comment! And hope all is good for you!

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I wish I could say it would be okay. ☹️

My situation was different I wasn’t offered bloods ; my GP sent me to the Early Pregnancy Unit and I had to wait a week and a half to clarify what I knew that I’d lost the baby. It was a awful time hubby and I were a logger heads .

No not at all they need to determine what is going on as you haven’t bled or had cramping and to do so they need to re check your HGC levels. They to establish that your levels have completely dropped and be sure there is no pregnancy content left over it would make you very ill ; usually with such early losses there isn’t.It’s like heavy clotting period 😪

Sadly it’s a horrible waiting game, please do keep in us posted.

I hope you hear soon . xoxo

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Thanks!

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I’m feeling so empty...

Pregnancy test this morning and BFN...

Another failed attempt, I’m started to think this will never happen for us as we are not getting any younger...

We still have 2 embryos frozen, I guess we will try with 2 next time... but last attempt which frustrates me even more. Not safety anymore!

I’m sure you understand me, I feel useless and without goal.

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Oh my love I’m so sorry. It’s so cruel and I felt so empty when I lost my baby. But you will get through this ( it won’t feel like it now or for a while) and you will find the strength to keep going.

I’ll leave you with a beautiful comment my lovely fertility doctor said to me “ through the dark cloud the silver lining is that you did conceive and this is positive “ 💝 xoxo

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