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My partner rang up for his semen analysis results yesterday and now I'm in a bit of a panic they wouldn't tell him his results, said the had to make an appointment with the doctor. This feels like something is wrong that's why they wouldn't tell him. On top of it he came out with a statement last night that he doesn't fancy raising somebody else's child and my heart dropped out the bottom of me he already as a child and we were told we definately wouldn't get ivf by the consultant, am I worrying for nothing I don't want to leave him but if there's a problem that can't be fixed it means no children as we can't afford private care I'm 35 now and seriously desperate

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Please don’t panic Sarah (I know it’s hard not to) This is standard protocol! Nobody will give results over the phone no matter if perfect results unless you speak to the Dr direct and have an e-mail relationship etc. In the worst case that there is a slight problem there’s lots of things that can be done so please try to be positive. I really hope everything will be ok and if not there is always a way round it 🙏🏼Xxx

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hey dear. please don't panic. I'm sure everything will be alright. these situations are difficult I know. please stay positive. go to the doctor. consult about everything properly. ill pray for you.im an infertile. but I and my husband keep reaching up to clinics. we soon plan to go for surrogacy. prayers needed for us. take care. bye.

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Hey, I am so sorry. Don't be worried about this. You are not alone. Many people are facing this kind of infertility. I think that you should go for the treatment. There are many treatments for men infertility. Don't panic this wont work in any case. you still have hope to be a mother. Visit the best doctor you can. My best wishes are with you.

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anabella12

It is really sad, I know you are hurt. Don't freak out, I think that you should go to the best doctor. They will help you out. I know you are going through a lot but you have to be confident. It is time that you both should support each other. I think there is still hope that you will have a baby. You are not so old enough that you will not be a mother. Just go for the thing you are comfortable with.

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landa1

Hope you are doing fine. There is nothing to be worried about. I think that treatment would be best for you. Men also faces infertility. You are not alone. There is a different kind of men infertility. This includes low count, erection etc. So support your husband. Don't panic this will not work in any case. you still have hope to be a mother. Visit the best doctor you can. My best wishes are with you.

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