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Not ivf related but need to semi vent.

My OH and I were out to dinner with friends tonight and we ran into a guy that we both used to work with. They organised to have dinner and a few drinks on Saturday.

Long story short I do not like my OH hanging out with this guy because he always puts my OH down. When they come home he feels like crap and I'm am left picking him up.

My OH is a paraplegic and this same person once said about me and I quote "she is only with you for the novelty of being with someone in a wheelchair". How does someone think that, let alone even say that?

I got a bit moody because I really don't like them hanging out because I Hate how he makes my OH feel and I hate seeing him doubt himself and choices or decisions he has made in life. But that is what this person does, he brings on that train of though, it's who he is/what he does.

There is not real point to this post, I am just having a rant!

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How awful I would say to your other half people who drag us down are really best avoided x

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silvanti_78

Hi Hun, I think it this case you need to answer sarcastic. not that I have an idea what would be a great response on that. this oerson is a bully in my opinion but I think talk with husband about a great response. you need to beat people with their own weapons.

what an arse to even bring that person about someone in a wheelchair... his ego mnust be v small.

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