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Hi everyone, haven’t been on for a while and I wanted to post before I deactivated my account. My hubby and I had been trying for years and after no joy we went to the doctors for help, eventually we had a cycle via the NHS which didn’t amount to success. But we did not give up, we had yet another cycle and again didn’t get a positive result. There were times when we pushed each other away and questioned whether we were doing the right thing as it put not only financial strain on us as we saved ready for the next attempt but so much emotional pressure that at times it was unbearably difficult. But we knew what we wanted and pulled together and tried again for a 3rd attempt, to our absolute delight we got the positive result we prayed so hard for. I am now 30 weeks pregnant with twins and they are exactly where they should be on charts etc and we can’t wait to meet them. I wanted to post before I put the past heartache behind us and concentrate on our next stage of our lives with our precious family, because I want to try to have a positive effect on even one couple as we know how hard it is. Even though there will be times you feel like giving up, and maybe some of you might do without ever getting the result we all want for each other, please try to stay strong and stick together as no matter how hard it is, you are both feeling the same pain and you will always have each other no matter what and you will need each other. I wish you all the success in the world on your journeys. Stay strong xxxxx

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HollieW

Congratulations and wishing you all the best for the rest of your pregnancy xx

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Kelz84

What a emotional, heart breaking but positive journey. I’m so pleased for you both. Congratulations on a positive and strong pregnancy. Wishing you lots of happiness and joy for your future xxx

Big congratulations on hanging on in there and getting your happy ending after your hard journey . Wishing you a happy future xxx

This was amazing to read and thank you for sharing your journey and I am so happy you have got your happy ending. You deserve it. All the best xxxx

Massive congrats and thank you for your post. It is so hard and so lovely to hear good news stories - hoping one day I can follow in your footsteps! Good luck with your twins xx

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Kyell2

Lovely post. Wishing you all the best for the rest of your pregnancy x

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Tugsgirl

Congratulations. Wishing you all a happy and healthy life xx

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hannahding

Congratulations to you. I am glad that things worked for you. Your post makes me very hopeful. I have also told myself that I am not going to give up. I am searching for the right place. I have found a clinic for myself. However, I am still searching and making sure its the right one. I hope your pregnancy goes smoothly.

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Saya85

Congratulations !

Thank you so much for sharing your happy ending - I wish you both (or should I say all 4 of you?!) a bright and exciting future ahead.

I have been wavering so much wondering how I would cope again if this third try failed - but I will remain hopeful and steadfast- maybe we are the couple you save 🙂

Good luck with everything xx

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Rowly88

Beautiful post, huge congratulations xx all the best for the rest of your pregnancy xxx

Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy!

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Sweets1

Big congratulations to you and hubby, all the best, and thanks for some positivity xxx

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Gemz29

Congratulations.... just been reading through you posts which has given me hope with having a high fsh.... thank you for sharing positivity x

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Muppetgirl

Feeling your strength. Thanks. Sending you love and energy for those babies.

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littlemissvics

Congratulations! I also struggled with infertility for years. Last year I finally got my miracles, a twin boy and girl through ivf. Xxx

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We’re having a boy and a girl too, after years of waiting we have our miracles :-) x

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Snowy76

Awww best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy. Enjoy!!!

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10Hope

Congratulations so happy for you two. Sending loads of love x

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everhopeful83

Congratulations wonderful news💕🤰🏻xxx

So lovely. Wishing lots of happiness for the next chapter of your lives xx

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Fifikoko

Congratulations Kelly1807! What lovely news. Wishing you and your family all the best. Well done for not giving up on the dream xxx

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Girlmeetsworld

Congratulations. Thank you for the positive comment. It's true. Never give up. Never let it destroy your relationship. All the best for the future xxx

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Elynn

God Bless You and your double blessing

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