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Hey all,

Sorry for being a bit quiet yesterday after posting about my bleeding. I read all the comments as they came in, screen grabbing the “clear blue are cr*p” and “I bled and I’m ok” ones and sent them to Mr Emu to reassure him too.

It was hard to engage yesterday, partly because I was travelling with work and partly because I passed a small blood clot mid-afternoon. It wasn’t a shock. The blood seemed to be getting redder but not masses as the day had gone on. Interestingly since that blood clot I’ve had no bleeding or discharge or cramps for well over 24 hours now.

My clinic remain incredibly calm about this, which calmed me too. I’m not sure how I’m managing but I’m very much optimistic about this. I’m not panicking and I’m keeping as calm and relaxed as possible. My work trip to London was quite possibly the most relaxing trip I’ve ever had.

I’ve not had a blood test or early scan. If I’d have continued bleeding I would have demanded these for peace of mind. This may alarm a few people. But I really do feel fine. x

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Phew 💕 😀

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Yeah pleased to not be on knicker watch. For now! x

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Haha you can take it easy 😀 x

Hi emu

It must be so hard for you even to make that post. There can be small clots passed and all well. You know that everyone is sending you lots of hugs and good wishes. Well done for being so calm. Xxx

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Thank you honey. Yesterday just got a bit too much I think. Panic set in. And i swear at one point I got cramp in my foot and started to think that was another sign of failed ivf attempts! Who knows where we are heading but it feels much easier being calm about it x

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I have been doing mindfulness this year to try to help. It says whatever has happened has already happened so no point in dwelling, and what will happen will happen. I am sure you are doing everything you should. Just pretty hard at this stage with everyone sharing your journey. You are so brave. Xxx

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Yes! This is exactly where I am! x

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Tugsgirl

🤞🤞 Glad to hear it 😊 xx

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😘

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Orla9298

Glad you are feeling calm, I hope so much that everything is just perfect xxx

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emu2016 in reply to Orla9298

Me too. Thank you xx

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Gillyc1

Glad you are feeling a bit better my love xx

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emu2016 in reply to Gillyc1

Thanks xx

Fingers crossed all is good. When is your scan due? You are an incredible lady. Big hugs xxx

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Monday. Not long now x

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lorraineb61

Glad you're feeling better! Good luck for Monday 🤞🤞x

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emu2016 in reply to lorraineb61

Thanks Lorraine x

Maybe implantation bleeding; my sister bled at 5 weeks for 2 weeks heavy like a period and everything was okay. I honestly know so many ladies who have had bleeding and been ok. 😍

I’m glad you are feeling in a better place. ❤️

It’s so easy to worry about things that havent happened; I do it a lot but never achieves anything. And sometimes you find out you worried for nothing waste of time and your energy 😐I’m real worrier this journey hasn’t not helped that 😂

So I applaud you completely and it is definitely better for you and your baby or babies to be in a happier place 😘 I know that is difficult after this whole journey. You’re doing really well and I’m so proud of you 🙂 Looking forward to your next update to hear all is well 😍 xoxov

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Hoping to be writing a positive post on Monday that’s for sure! Thanks for being here with support along the way x

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And thank you. ❤️It’s a real tough journey that is for sure 😘 really hoping this is your time ❤️❤️❤️ xoxo

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Biala

Good luck Gods got you

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emu2016 in reply to Biala

Thanks x

Have you had any pregnancy symptoms yet?! x

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No! :( nothing! My boobs still aren’t sore and now my finger nails have started breaking! Humph. x

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Its crazy some women have loads of symptoms and some none. Bonkers! X

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elle80

😘

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emu2016 in reply to elle80

Thanks Michelle x

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Dreamingofbaby

Yay good news. Good luck for Monday. Everything crossed ☺️😋🤞xx

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emu2016 in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Thanks you! x

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Mifkipi

So relieved to read that you are fine! Keep the good news coming!

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emu2016 in reply to Mifkipi

Will try! x

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vic77

hang in there hun....you got this xxxx

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Glad to hear your feeling better, good luck for mondat xx

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Thanks x

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Hope you’re doing ok! x

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That’s great you are feeling better and looking forward to your scan on Monday, will be thinking of you xxx ☺️

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emu2016 in reply to Star9

Thanks Star x

Hope all goes well on Monday xx

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Thanks Claire x

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7AVA

Good news that you’re feeling calmer and bleeding has stopped. You are doing so well xx

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Thanks 7AVA! X

Don’t post on here a great deal , but have been following your posts !

Good luck for Monday ! Will be hoping to see a positive post from you !

💕💕

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Fingers crossed x

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72cloud9

U r dealing with everything so well and I hope Monday brings u all the reassurance U need!! Big hugs xxx

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emu2016 in reply to 72cloud9

Much better than I thought to be honest! But we’ll on Monday! x

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Autumnmoon

Glad the bleeding has stopped and you feel calmer hoping for good news when you get the scan if wishes could come true you have so many It's bound to happen! Sending love x

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😘 than you x 😘

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Squeak2

Hope all is ok with you!! 💕 xx

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Hey

Am checking in on your updates from

My honeymoon don’t tell hubby he wouldn’t be impressed with me.

Someone once said this to me

If, ifs and ands were pots and pans...

Stay calm all will be well...

Fingers crossed for you, me emu and peas xxx

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Love that quote! Thank you x

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Lynnr54

Glad the bleeding seems to have stopped and you’re feeling calmer. One thought which I’m not sure anyone else has said. Am I right in thinking you had 2 embies transferred? Maybe only one of them took and this was the second one coming away? Either way you should hopefully have an answer on Monday. Not long to go now. I have everything crossed for you x

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emu2016 in reply to Lynnr54

Yeah, in a weird way I think that has kept me sane knowing there was two. The clinic haven’t said that. Just said that ‘this happens, promise!’ x

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strong-girl

Ur defo strong and calm is good xx

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emu2016 in reply to strong-girl

Thank you xx

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Sarahlou01

Lots and lots of luck for Monday ❤️

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emu2016 in reply to Sarahlou01

Thanks x

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MrsElbow

Sending you all the best wishes, luck and love in the world xxx

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emu2016 in reply to MrsElbow

Thanks MrsElbow x

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dmccmky

Hey ❤️ I'm currently 7 weeks and 3 days, last week at 6 weeks I went to the toilet and had a bright red bleed like a nose bleed. Absolute panic stations I was devestated sure id lost the baby. Went to early pregnancy unit and they scanned me and saw my wee baby and it's heart beat. I have continued to spot and bleed every single day since then, pink at times and other red and clots. I was sure it was the end. Had another scan yesterday and again saw my baby happy as Larry and a strong heartbeat. What they did see tho was called a subchronic bleed, a pocket of blood like a bruise that will either be absorbed or expelled so in my case it comes out. Should resolve itself and cause no issues just taking it easy and relaxing not being too strenous. It wasn't near the baby and wasn't affecting it so they said. Just to let u know ur not alone and this may be a possible cause apparently it's common with treatment ladies xx

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emu2016 in reply to dmccmky

I’ve never heard of subchronic bleeding before. Thanks for sharing! xx

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Jenjen84

Keeping everything crossed for Monday for you! You are an absolute trooper.. Big love xxxx

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emu2016 in reply to Jenjen84

Thanks you xx

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Bobenhams3

This happened to me at 7 weeks. I was convinced I’d let my twins. My clinic wasn’t concerned but told me to stop my clexane injections. They said I could either wait until my planed scan or come in the next day for piece of mind, it was Christmas Day (well evening) so on Boxing Day I had a scan and saw both of my babies for the first time.

Good luck xx

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emu2016 in reply to Bobenhams3

Wowser. Good story of hope! x

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Sez73

After the storm comes calm, I think that’s what they say?! Well you’re proof of this, I really admire how calm you’ve been through this and need to try & take some of that with me too along this crazy ride. I’d have been a total mess. Living on high alert for so many years not knowing what on Earth is happening or what my body is doing makes for a very tiring, scary, unpredictable life. Your body will do what it wants to do whatever and I guess and just getting worried doesn’t change the outcome one bit, well done you for weathering that storm and bringing a little ray of sunshine to us all on here! Keeping everything crossed for you on Monday 😘🤞xx

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emu2016 in reply to Sez73

I keep thinking the calm will go soon. So I keep eating cake. 😂 three more sleeps x

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Sez73 in reply to emu2016

It’s a scientific proven fact that cake wards off anxiety & keeps you calmer...I’m sure I’ve read that somewhere?! Here’s to 3 speedy sleeps ahead and good news on Monday and lots more cake...obviously! 😘🤞🍰🍩

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Mrs Emu

Just wanting to send my love and best wishes and sending you positive vibes for Monday. You are such a strong lady and an inspiration to us all. Xx

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Thank you! x

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Good on you! Loads of love xx

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Thanks x

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Sprinkles86

I’m so pleased to hear the bleeding has stopped and you’re feeling so calm about it, will be thinking of you Monday as well as Mr Emu xxx

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Thanks Sprinkles. Heres hoping all will be well. x

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precioce

So happy that the bleeding has stopped. I wish you nothing but good news at the scan on Monday.xx

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Hayleigh86

Hello,

I am 6+4 today. On thursday last week I started bleeding, it got heavier and the next day I passed 2 clots. I was convinced it was bad news. The hospital arranged an early scan on the Monday and I got to see the heart beating. Everything was as it should be. Best wishes to you xx

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emu2016 in reply to Hayleigh86

Thanks Hayleigh. Stories like this really help x

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tiger-cub

Glad u feel better

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emu2016 in reply to tiger-cub

😘

Looks like you've received lots of hope and reassurance from others' experiences. Good luck for your scan on Monday. xx

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