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Abnormal pregnancy sac, it’s over 😔

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It looks like our dream is over but I’ve got another week to find out.

My second blood test yesterday didn’t show enough of an increase in my HCG levels and the clinic were concerned that with the bleeding it could also be a sign of an ectopic pregnancy so I had to go in today for a scan.

The pregnancy sac is in my womb so not ectopic but it’s badly misshapen so they don’t think it’s viable. They have to do a second scan next Friday before they can officially declare the pregnancy over so I have another painful week of waiting knowing that this is most likely the end for us.

I’m devastated to lose another baby and after everything we’ve been through it seems so cruel.

I think I’ve been numb with shock this afternoon but now I can’t stop crying 😭 xx

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Cinderella5

Oh my lovely lady, I'm so so sorry!😔 I have no words to ease how you are feeling! So sad that you are having to go through this!! Sending love to you both!xxxx

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CheshireKit in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you lovely 😘xxxx

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E_05

I’m so sorry to read this, this happened during my first MMC they said the sac was banana shaped. I totally understand how hard the waiting is, thinking of you xx

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CheshireKit in reply to E_05

Thanks so much xx

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Sweets1

Sending lots of hugs, so sorry xx

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CheshireKit in reply to Sweets1

Thank you xxx

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Chloegreenkiwi

So sorry to hear that. Sending you a big hug. The waiting must be awful. It’s natural to grieve for yourself and what you may have lost. Thinking of you.

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-noodles-

i am so sorry darling - can’t even imagine the pain. you’re in my thoughts. sending love xx

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vic77

Oh no my heart is breaking for you 💔💔💔sending you the biggest hug and so much love..just awful...the pain will be unbearable xxxx

😢

So so sorry to hear that. I know what you mean about the numbness. One minute you’re functioning fine, then the grief comes and hits you like a tonne of bricks. I’m so sorry it’s turned out like this, you’re right, it is so cruel xxx

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Caroliono4

Hi Cheshire. I'm so sorry to hear your news. It is too cruel for you to be faced by another possible miscarriage. Sending a big hug to you at this difficult time x x

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misswinky34

I'm sorry sweetheart x

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Tugsgirl

It is cruel. Hardly anything about this seems fair at times. I’m so sorry xx

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Goodthingscome

I’m so sorry to read this, send hugs to you xx

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CheshireKit in reply to Goodthingscome

Thank you xxx

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Dreamingofbaby

This is awful so sorry to hear this. Life def can be very cruel n unfair. Take good care of urself xx

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CheshireKit in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Thanks lovely xx

I'm so sorry to hear your news. life is so cruel at times .. sending lots of love and hugs your way❤ xx

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CheshireKit in reply to

Thanks so much xxx

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Tezzabell86

I’m so sorry to hear this and we are here if you ever need to chat xxx

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CheshireKit in reply to Tezzabell86

Thanks that’s really kind of you 😘xxx

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Tezzabell86 in reply to CheshireKit

You’re welcome x

So sorry x

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CheshireKit in reply to

Thank you xx

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lianm8

Oh no. I am so sorry to hear this. Am thinking of you xxxx

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CheshireKit in reply to lianm8

Thanks lovely xx

Oh my love I’m so so sorry to hear your loss, I know you’ve been here before. This journey can be so cruel at times, I don’t know why we are made to suffer like this been here myself last year. My heart breaks for you. I hope you can find the strength to start again/ undergo investigations to get answers. Thinking of you xoxo

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CheshireKit in reply to

Thanks lovely xxx

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DC13

I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you at this very hard time. Sending you a big hug.

Xx

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CheshireKit in reply to DC13

Thank you xxx

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Penders

Oh Hun I'm really sorry. Sending you big hugs xxx

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CheshireKit in reply to Penders

Thanks hon xxx

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Becky179

Oh I'm so so sorry. Xx

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CheshireKit in reply to Becky179

Thank you xxx

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Amanda86

So sorry 🙁 xxx

I'm so, so sorry. Sending you big hugs xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Bless your heart I'm so sorry to be reading this life is so cruel. Big hugs my love. 💗🤗😘

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CheshireKit in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thanks so much, it does feel really unfair 😔😘xx

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Poppy16

Oh how awful this is. I am really sorry to hear this. This happened to me too with one of my losses. Sad to hear you have to go through this. I totally get where you're coming from when you are talking about all the waiting for scans,blood tests etc. It is dreadful. It really makes it all worse. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and lean on those around you who care and want to help you right now. Big hugs. Xo

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CheshireKit in reply to Poppy16

Thank you lovely, really appreciate it 😘 xxx

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emu2016

Oh honey. So sorry to hear this. Lots of love and hugs xx

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CheshireKit in reply to emu2016

Thanks hon xxx

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7AVA

I’m so, so sorry to hear this CheshireKit. Thinking of you xxx

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Kyell2

I’m so sorry! This is just awful news for you. Look after each other xx

I'm so sorry. Xx

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