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No Joy 👎🏻

Yet another BFN contributing to the masses on here atm...😞

I tested yesterday (day 11) having my suspicions and knowing my body's responses all too well now, I have even discontinued the drugs. Previous times I've shown positive by now. I'd say the Lubion injections have been helpful/stronger in that they kept the spotting away, so less stressful in one way as not had the 👀 of knicker watch this time! But also misleading as I was feeling rather positive at the beginning of last Wk thinking we'd cracked it.

Lots of q's I'd like answers to at the consultation, but in the meantime I'm pretty exhausted with it all - the past 8months have been all consuming and isolating. I think I might only have one more fresh cycle left in me!

Best of luck to all those on 2ww - bring us some good news soon! 🤞🏻 xx

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Disappointed for you:-( really sorry to hear this. Trusting you get answers/direction at your next consultant's appointment. Treat yourself to new clothes,haircut,meal,massage whatever helps lift you a bit. Xo

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I’m sort to read this. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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Sorry to hear that! Sending hugs xx

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Aww really disappointed for you. It’s so disheartening to read about these bfns all the time. I’m sorry xx

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I’m so sorry to hear, it’s so disappointing. Take some time for yourself. xx

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Could day 11 just be too early? I tested today, day 10. 5 days past my transfer of a 5-day blastocyst and got a negative. I am just trying to believe it was just too early. I heard day 12 or 13. But I have also read girls who had BFN all the way to the beta test to get a positive!

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Oh Stepharni 🙁 I’m sorry to hear that you are feeling so down. I do think it would be worth carrying on with the drugs for a few more days until OTD though, as there is a chance you could have a late implanter. I didn’t have any symptoms during my 2WW but I got a BFP... it didn’t work out for me in the end, but I don’t think you can always rely on symptom spotting. I really hope things turn around for you and that you get your BFP xx

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So sorry again!! Hope you’re looking after yourself!! 💔 xx

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I'm so sorry :( xx

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So sorry to this, life can so be so unfair. Rest up, have lots of you time. Plan loads of lovely things for the summer to keep you mind active and to give you things to look forward and then it will be your next cycle before you know it. Xxx

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I am so sorry for your loss hon! I hope your doctor helps you in this matter. Visit him asap. Try to go for a walk or go out with your friends and try to divert your mind from this. Just take good care of yourself. Life is sometimes so unfair, but that's what life is my dear. *sending a truck full of hugs to you* Don't worry, everything will be fine. Much Love!

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