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Ketajean
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Life sux. I give up 😭😭😭

I don't know how you all do it. 2nd failed fresh round of icsi and no frosties. And last round of funded.

My cousin also had her baby 2 days ago. What a shit week.

Hope you guys are having a better week than us. XoX

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E_05

So sorry to read this, it really is a cruel journey. Take time to rebuild your strength xx

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Ketajean in reply to E_05

Thank you. I know so many of you have been through so much more i feel bad complaining but i know deep down you all get it and we all understand on some level. Xx

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E_05 in reply to Ketajean

Don’t ever feel bad for writing how you feel on here, a BFN is still another knock back to deal with. We put everything into these cycles and for 2 weeks act as if we are pregnant, it’s still grieving for a loss of what could have been in my eyes. In time you will feel stronger again xx

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bumpkin

I'm sorry hun. I'm sure this isn't the end of the road for you. Give yourself chance to grieve. Take care xx

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Ketajean in reply to bumpkin

Thank you. Goodluck for your cycle. Xx

Sorry to hear this, look after yourself xxx

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Babytalk

This is shitty mcshit shit! I completely understand how you feel and have been there, you will build yourself back up and feel strong again. Take this time to feel sad, you are grieving. Spend time and money on yourself be kind and loving to yourself and partner. Try and remember you have a great life and this is a bump in the journey. Hugs to you xxx

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Dunla

I’m so sorry, this is a difficult and cruel process. I understand completely how awful you are feeling. The birth of your cousins child is also a painful reminder of what it is you are trying so deperately for. Such awful timing. Take as much time as you need to grieve and be good to yourself at this painful time. Sending you lots of love xxxx

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Tugsgirl

Sorry for your bfn. A bfn is hard xx

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Aleelilook

Oh Christ I’m so sorry, life does suck I totally agree. Take your time sweets to heal, sadly you now know the drill, thinking of you xxx

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-noodles-

so sorry for your loss. this is such a long & cruel journey.

i hope you find strength in the days ahead - hold each other tight.

sending love & light ✨💕✨

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Cinderella5

Aww Im really sorry! Sending hugsxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

So sorry lovely, take some time out to spoil yourselves hun, lots of love and hugs 💗🤗😘

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emu2016

Big hugs. Take time for yourselves x

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Leo2017

So sorry for you, such a cruel journey!! Take care of yourself!! xx

I’m so sorry xxxx

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TTCs

Im so sorry u didnt get a positive result. Life can be so cruel and unfair. The timing of ur cousin's baby no doubt jus accentuates ur pain. Thinking of you 💕 xx

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sanchia46

So sorry. It hurts to have a BFN. Don't give up yet though...

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Elynn

So sorry 😕 don't give up. 💚

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