Hey ladies.. I recently found out January 9th that im going to have to go through IVF to conceive a baby😢 which i took pretty bad as im only 27 and didnt want this?!? I dont have any children or been pregnant ever! So since then ive been on a emotional rollercoaster, sobbing nearly everyday due to the shock etc.. anyways my sister is having her 2nd child May and the same week i found out my bad news that i Cnt conceive my own baby my sister asked me to throw her a babyshower!! As a good big sister i agreed even tho it broke me inside😢 as i was still coming to terms with my news.. as of yesterday we had words! I asked if we could change venue etc as she wants me to pay hundreds of pounds for this venue etc which I physically cannot afford as im about to buy my 1st house as you know is expensive with all the solicitors fees etc on top and going through this baby news aswell is very stressful!! And I admitted to her that im struggling to plan it money wise and emotionally!! My sister said to me “its not my fault you cant have your own kids, this is about me and my baby!!” She said other nasty comments but this hurt me to my core!! So now im not doing it as I physically cant, emotionally and financially! Her friend is now doing it.. my husband is not happy at all! His watching me cry my eyes out which I hardly cry ever! And watching my sister being just a selfish horrible person to his wife and the fact she asked me to do this made him mad! Ive had no support or compassion off my sister when i got my news ‘NOTHING’!! Am i being silly and overthinking it all?!? Help me please..