So now that we've seen baby and heartbeat I feel ready to tell my sister - however it's going be a guilt ridden time.
Years ago my sister and her now ex husband had ivf that failed. They had some embryos frozen but for various reasons never use them. They have since split up (not down to this) and they let the embryos go. She is now happy with her new boyfriend but I think it's unlikely she will ever have children due to various reasons. My heart breaks for her as I know she'd love kids and she'd make a great mum.
My question is how do I tell her? She lives in Southampton and I don't see her often so it will have to be over the phone. I would rather text her the news as based on how I felt hearing similar news from others it gives her the opportunity to react sadly without her feeling like she has to immediately say congratulations and she can have a good cry if she needs to. But I'm just stuck on how to word it. I kind of want to include that I know it could be upsetting for her and that I totally understand.
Anyone good at wording things like this. I feel so guilty that our happiness will cause her pain xxx