Hi , everyone. Hope everyone is okay. and wishing everyone lots of love.
I wanna complain about my clinic. It a long story.
My clinic said they are ref me to a clinic in london for ivf this was in sep 2017
i was n hubby was asked to do blood work on 17 sep at the app. We did the blood work on the 15 september and I was in touch with clinic i was being ref to on the 17 sep and they told me they can not treat me and hubby becuz hubby is hep b positive n my consultant should not waste time sending the ref there as it will only be rejected. The consultant failed to tell me this at the time when she said she has decided to ref me for ivf.
So i email my consltant secretary and tell hr to tell my consultant to ref us else where becuz sending the ref to london clinic will only cause delays and my ivf ref will be rejected. I also asked why my consultant not know this before. she should have been aware of this. Thanks god i found out about this before my consultant sent the ref.
secretary emails bk saying she didnt know anything about this and she has not sent anything as yet to this clinic in london. and she will ask my consultant why i wasnt told this at the time when she said she is ref us for ivf.
i said in the email to ref us ese where where hubbys hep b wont cause rejection
2 months later i get phone call on the day of my appointment by the consultant saying my ivf ref was sent
to the new clinic and has been rejected and it was sent a while a go??????? isaid when did u send it - a while ago she said
why was it rejected - dont know maybe becuz finding has stopped she says.
OMG I WAS GONNA PASS OUT.
i had saw a different consultant in may and funding was paused in june which i only came to know now. i was told 2 week ago actually funding has stopped all to gather. by the consultant on the day off app via phone call. and to get this time off for app me and hubby had to bend over backwards.
From MAY - 16 Nov 2017 i had no clue about funding being pasued and nly found out on the day of my latest app on 17 no that funding is stopped.
Consulatnt says on the phone when she called me on the day of app that they will resend my ivf application.
Guess what guys. i call this new clinic that my consultant ref me to a "while ago" to ask if i was actually ref or i was being told lies. well surprise surprise
The new clinic did not at any point receive my ivf ref. so i was lied to and the new clinic confirmed this by email to. so my consultant lied that she has already ref me and it was rejected.
Sine 17 November tell 29 nov 17 i have been trying to find out whats going on i phone the reception at the clinic the receptionist says call secretary i call secretary i get told call reception i call reception i get told i need to speak to my consultant who is in clinic every time i phone n cant talk so call secretary. i call secretary she says call nurse becuz nurse deals with ivf application. and surprise suprise the consultant doesnt deal with ivf.
Finally after 2 days of calling leaving voice mails i get through to nurse on 28 nov. She says i have never been ref before for ivf and this is my first time and my ivf application is in progress of being completed as my nurse is on holiday and will do when shes back i explain what has happened to me. the nurse questions me who told me that my application for ivf was sent before i said the consultant.
Nurse says well the cut off line for sending away the ivf ref is 15 dec and i and hubby still need to do more tests. it was lucy i was on my period becuz i had to do fsh and lh blood work. but i did the blood today which is cd 4 but i think im supposed to them on cd 3 but on cd 3 i founf really late that i had to do more blood work and i could not make it in time as pathology lab shuts early. and i had just finished work.
anyways me and hubby did the blood work today i did the fsh and lh today and rubella and chylemedia. im on cd 4 so idont know if doing the fsh and lh on cd day 4 rather 3 would make a differance to the results
If i had not been kept calling the nurse i would have not found out that i and hubby still need to do blood work and that the cut f date is 15 dec i would have missed the c=cut of line and we could be back to square one.
From May when i saw a diff consultant to 17 November when i actually spoke to my own consultant no one at any point mentioned about pause in funding. funding stopped whats happening with my ivf application so from may tell 17 november no communication at all no letters no email.
I m still being ref for ivf becuz i was asked to produce letters for my hubby ffrom his dr to make sure his oky to ahead fr ivf . which were all given to the consultant back in june and i was on the agenda of having ivf and was ready to start the tests for ivf but could not becuz the consulatnt i saw in may still needed to speak to my consultant and i had to wait almost 6 months to see my own consultant. iletters from may and june also statethat the consultants are going to offer ivf if meet the critera. so between may 2017 and befre funding was stopped i was ready for. ivf but i could do anything as i had to wait 6 months between app
sorry for the long story
I want to complain but nervous becuz i dont want this to effect my application we are so close being ref.
Any advice guys
Thanks for reading my post and will look forward to your response
lotsssss love xxx