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Hi everyone, I'm new on here. Sad I didn't come across this site before my fet. Would have helped me a lot. But I had my fet a week ago and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for a positive. Glad I'm here now. Been pretty difficult not to get people around you to talk to about the journey. It's Really difficult in my country to talk about things like this so I don't even know who has been through Ivf. Please keep me in your prayers, I will test in a weeks time. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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Fredaflintstone

Good luck Oluwa! Which country are you in? Wishing you all the best xxx

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply toFredaflintstone

Thank you. In Nigeria.

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Fredaflintstoneβ€’ in reply toOluwa

I love the way we can support each other all over the world through this site. Xxx

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply toFredaflintstone

You can say that again πŸ’ƒπŸΏπŸ’ƒπŸΏ

Good luck and welcome. Hope you’re posting positive news in a week’s time. X

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply to

Thanks for the warm welcome. Amen amen.

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kumkums

Welcome Oluwa. Wishing you that BFP. I pray you have good news to share next week.

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply tokumkums

Amen amen. Thank you. πŸ€—

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kumkumsβ€’ in reply toOluwa

From your name I quickly guessed you are a Nigerian. Lovely to have you here. Stay tuned and be full of positivity. I know it's difficult to get people to discuss this with in Nigeria. I'm also a Nigerian. However trust God, eat rightly, and live each day as it comes, don't be anxious but commit all to God's hands.

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply tokumkums

I was gonna ask from you name, lol. And I'm sure you are Yoruba. You know how people don't discuss such issues. It's been tough. You don't even know who's been down the lane, so sad. So you practically believe everyone's conceived naturally *sigh*. It's my first and the LAST. Only one embryo out of four survived the thawing process, had only one transferred.

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kumkumsβ€’ in reply toOluwa

Yes I am Yoruba :). I know how it feels, though I didn't go through this stage in Nigeria so I never personally witnessed it, but my mum is a registered midwife nurse, and through her work and advice to people, I can relate with how it feels.

So why is it the first and LAST? Did you have any fresh transfer done?

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply tokumkums

I'm Being positive that why I said first and last. Want it done with and who knows God can love me so much more than I know and give me two for one.

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kumkumsβ€’ in reply toOluwa

ah I see. Oh great, I like your faith. That's a good one. Yes o @giving you two, nothing shall be impossible with God.

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply tokumkums

Yes o. He will surely do it. Thanks for the support.

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Scarlett13

Good luck and welcome - you can be as open and as honest with your thoughts and feelings here as you want and need to be. No question is too small or silly. I'm pleased you are doing IVF in a country where it's difficult to discuss your issues. What support do you have? X

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply toScarlett13

Thanks Scarlett, I'm def good with silly questions πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ. I know Ild ask questions everyday. Well I'm in this alone. Been Married for almost four years and been ttc since then. I know Ild get all the strength and support I need from everyone here. πŸ€—πŸ€—

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Scarlett13β€’ in reply toOluwa

Is your husband a good support? Anyone else know you're having ivf? X

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply toScarlett13

He has no idea of what physical and emotional battle it's been for me. He lives his day like nothing's going on. It became more emotional for me the day I had my fet, now I'm always on the edge and practically quarrel with him every minute for support, I guess my hormones finally took over my patience ☺️ . My immediate family and a friend has made the journey worth it though. But then it's just online communication, everyone's in the USA and I'm back home in Nigeria. But my mum got in two days before my transfer just to help me get through.

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sandra81β€’ in reply toOluwa

Great you are with your mum and immediate family is supportive. Good luck on your journey.

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply tosandra81

Oh yes, she's been spoiling me silly 😊 Thank you so much Sandra.

Hi Oluwa welcome.i will also be doing fet soon.what did you do to help with the fet?i hope you get a positive.

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply to

Amen amen. I just took my meds as prescribed and Went on with my daily activities. Wish you the best. πŸ€—

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Thank you

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klh386

Please know you have support here any time you need to talk! x

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply toklh386

Thank you darling. So I remembered you in my prayers this morning (prayer buddy). ☺️

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klh386β€’ in reply toOluwa

I did for you too, about 15 minutes ago. Looks like it was around the same time! x

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Leesara

Oluwa, welcome! Lots and lots of supportive ladies here. Wishing you all the best for this part of your journey x

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply toLeesara

Thank you Leesara. I know how I've felt in the past few days with all the support and encouragement from here. God bless all the beautiful people in this forum.

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Kittygoo

Just wanted to say I'm keeping everything crossed for you and wishing you so much luck and hope you get your bfp.Ivf can be such a sad and lonely time please try to reach out and get family or friends support if you can. I had my fet on 19th October and my test day is today. Xxx

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply toKittygoo

You can say that again, it's dealt with me emotionally but here I am in the 2ww hoping for the best news since I got married. Thanks for the support. So I'm going to be here all day cos of you, I can't wait to get the good news. Something that will make my day. 🀞🏼

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Kittygooβ€’ in reply toOluwa

Ah thank you I am hoping for good news xxx

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tish44

Good luck Oluwa ! πŸ™πŸ» xxx

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Oluwaβ€’ in reply totish44

Thanks Tish πŸ€—

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