Today is 9dp5dt and is my OTD. The tests are positive but I can't quite believe even even though I've been testing positive for few days.
I still have some brown discharge at times but nothing major, bit of cramping and due to my natural miscarriages I'm absolutely terrified. Instead of happiness I feel fear, absolute fear of what the future holds! π€π€π€π€πππππ
I hope everything will be fine! π€π€π€π€
Sending lots of hugs to all of you! You are all absolutely amazing! β€β€β€β€β€π€π€π€π€π€π€π€π€
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Yeah I'm really good. Everything is going well, I'm just under 20 weeks now but still hard to get my head round. It's like a dream xx
YAY!!!!!! Enjoy this moment!!!! You have earned it!! πππππ
I am having a few counselling sessions at the moment, and she said something really important:
βYou canβt emotionally prepare for what will happen. Creating fear and negativity is a protection mechanism, but it doesnβt actually provide any protection at all. So just let go, feel the happiness, enjoy the moment.β
Thank you ever so much! I absolutely agree with every word! I was the most positive person I have ever seen in my life even in the darkest times. It's just I think what the whole ttc journey causes to our minds sometimes. Fear takes over and doesn't let the happiness see the light!
I will try and stay as positive as I canπ€π€π€π€πππ
Hope is all well with you! π€π€π€π€π€β€β€β€β€β€
Best of luck with your upcoming round! I've been thinking of you quite often to be honest. I will pray with all my heart that your next round works for you! Sending you lots of love! π€π€π€π€π€β€β€β€β€β€
Awww bless you, thanks very much!! Need all the prayers and luck that I can get....Im pretty sh!t as this IVF malarkey!! Ha ha ha Lots of love to you too.xx
Omg soooo exciting and so happy for you after what happened last time. Think positive and just try and relax and enjoy x wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months ππ xxxx
Try not to worry about the brown spotting itβs very common in early pregnancy & I had it & scans showed it had nothing to do with my baby.Iβm 37 weeks tomorrow. Hope that can offer you some hope. My advice is to rest up ( thatβs what a GP suggested to do till it stopped)
Sorry for your losses too I had one in 2017 & I do think it does make you worry more βΉοΈ
Thank you! It definitely makes me feel better to see other people had it and everything turned up fine! Wishing you a quick and easy labour and health and happiness only from now on!
Yes it's true the previous bad experiences makes us a bit too sensitive and cautious but Will get there π€π€π€π€β€β€β€
Yay great news for you. Not surprised you feeling like that at the same time though. I have been the same. π€π€ all will work out this time. Big hugs πππ
Yep def good to try to stay positive but so hard at same time with experiences we have had so def go easy on u and know it ok to feel what ever way u feel. Acceptance is good too. Congrats all same though so awesome for uπβΊοΈ
Am ok. Trying to get on. Just had my first period on 4months which not easy but hey guess means my body is getting back to normal. So good and badβΊοΈπ. Take good care hun xx
I have egg collection on Sunday or Monday - just waiting for blood results from this morning to determine what day. I feel like the size of a house so am ready for it! Enjoy your celebrations xx
Hahaha that feeling at the end is omg like your eggs will start falling out of your v...... I was in pain when sitting or going to the loo πππ Not very pleasant but we are women and we can deal with everything! Good luck with ec and hope you get many nice eggies π€π€π€πππππ€π€π€π€xxx
Hahaha. I have a feeling trigger wont be until tomorrow night so I really will feel exactly like that. Thank you. Keeping my fingers crossed for my girls xx
Yayyyy!! OTD and still positive, that's great. I can imagine it is hard (I've never experienced a positive result), but try to enjoy this moment as it is a great step forward. Wishing you lots of luck and hoping all continues to go well going forward xx
Yayyy my hands were shaking in the morning don't know why. Even though I've done hundreds of tests for the past few years. Now will try to keep calm and will ve praying everything to go well!π€π€π€πππ
Bless you, it must have been horrible wating for the lines to appear/for it to flash pregnant! Yes stay calm, take it a day at a time and just get through by reaching each milestone. Praying all goes well too! I'm good thank you, waiting for the impending birth of another niece/nephew, I am on standby to look after my 18 month old niece when my SIL goes into labour, her due date was yesterday xx
I got my BFP a week ago, and I still donβt quite believe it and am absolutely terrified. Those words from Annaβs counsellor are spot on, Iβm going to also try to keep thinking that. The worry does absolutely no good.
Definitely spot on. But yes sometimes is easier said than done. But I'm sure at some point everything will sink in and we will enjoy the time ahead! Congratulations and wishing you happy, healthy and relaxed 9 months β€π€π€π€π€π€ππππππβ€β€β€
This is great news. Congratulations!! Look after yourself and keep yourself busy in hope that the time will go a little faster! Iβve got my fingers crossed for you!! π€π€π€ xx
Looks like were due date buddies! When is your viability scan? My clinic confirmed this morning after my blood test (which I admitted to testing early Haha)
Hahaha yayyyyy I have a buddy finally ππ€ I have a scan booked for 29th of this month. I will go on Monday and get some bloods done as well otherwise I won't be able to sleep π€πππ When is your scan? Xxx
Not long to wait then. I wish I could go earlier as well. I had a miscarriage a bit over a year ago in 8 weeks and anoth3one 2 years ago but just a chemical. This time is our turn and everything will be amazing! π€π€π€π€ππ€π€π€ππππππ
Thank you ever so much hun! I still have some spotting on and off but tested tonight and seems darker hope everything will be alright! π€π€π€π€ππππ€π€π€
I can imagine. I cried with my 2nd when we got 7 eggs hahaha
And im so glad you got a good call! I will pray that they all behave themselves till the next call! Sending lots of hugs hun β€β€β€ππππ€π€π€π€π€π€
Hahhahaha I definitely need a new pair of socks hahah need to find a nice one. I'm still spotting though on and off but clinic wasn't worried so fingers crossed everything will be fine!
Looking forward for your updates and news! Sending millions hugs your way π€π€π€π€π€β€β€β€β€β€xxx
Yes, every time i go to the bathroom im keep checking on it cause will go away tomorrow morning hahahha I'm a serial tester and im obsessed with peeing on sticks haha
Best of luck to you hun and hope all goes well for you! β€β€β€π€π€π€π€π€
Omg you people will make me cry today seriosly. π Thank you ever so much for your amazing words really made my day!!!!! π€π€π€π€π€β€β€β€β€
Hope you and baby Riley are doing very well and you are all very happy! Sending millions hugs and lots of love your way! πβ€β€β€β€β€π€π€π€π€πππππππ
You deserve every happiness you have such a big heart and will make an amazing mummy πyou HAVE to get some amazing socks for the birth!!!!! π€£π€£π€£Take careπππ xxx
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