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Happiness never lasts too long for me πŸ˜…

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Klndmr

Hey my lovely ladies hope you are all well

The title says it all isn't it πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

After a bit of a happiness yesterday today started some cramps and at first pink spotting and now fresh blood with mild cramps. My boobs even don't hurt today... πŸ™ˆ

I'm thinking to myself is this some kind of course or what πŸ˜… I can't even get upset did I become a stone when it comes to emotions and feelings? It was just too good to be true πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ

Sooo, I'm not going back home today and I was so looking forward to it!

Let's hope is the small embryo going not both! Send me some positive vibes as usual and pray for me!

I pray for you all and I'm sending you all smiles, hope and positive vibes! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸŒ»πŸŒ»πŸŒ»β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

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Hay hun sorry your going through this. But it might just be implantation bleeding. Can you get in your clinic today see what's going on? Even though its still sad it might be the smaller one. I'm keeping everything cross for you hun . Let me know babe xx

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Klndmr in reply to Rainbowbaby22

Unfortunately it's too late for implantation bleeding as we saw both sacs on the scan yesterday. I've spoken to my doctor and he advised I stop the blood thinning injections and the aspirin for now and carry on with everything else and just wait. Will probably see him Monday or Tuesday. All in God's hands now! πŸ₯°πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ Hope your scan went well xx πŸ₯°

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Rainbowbaby22 in reply to Klndmr

Please keep me posted I'm thinking of you my lovely xx

Hey

As you know from our other messages I can relate to the numb feelings you're experiencing. When you've been burnt so many times you almost become hardened to the emotional pain.

I'm really hoping for you that you can speak to your medical team again quickly and they can see what might be going on? It's difficult when you've had losses in the past as they are bound to affect how you feel about things now but this is a different pregnancy and I certainly have my fingers crossed for you. Keep the hope. Sending you love and hugs at what is a stressful time xx

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Klndmr in reply to Skittles11

Absolutely numb exactly and I just wish I was now in my own home with hubby and the dog hahaha. I've spoken to my doctor and we will just wait and see what happens. If I'm lucky one of the embryos will survive, if not a little break and then will crack on again πŸ₯°πŸ€—πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

I am so so sorry - you must be petrified. Please don’t lose hope. I know it’s so scary, but it could be many things.

Keep breathing. You can do this. We are all rooting for you.

Praying for you. Keep us updated xx

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Klndmr in reply to Seren0119

Aww thank you ever so much! All in God's hands now anyway will wait and see. I'm still hopeful one will survive πŸ€—πŸ™ˆπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ₯°πŸ₯°β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

❀️ sending all my positive vibes in the hope it’s the smaller embryo alone and not the other. πŸŒΈπŸŒΈπŸŒΈπŸŒžπŸŒžπŸŒžπŸŒΎπŸŒΎπŸŒΎπŸ€πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€

Thank you! That's all I'm hoping for too! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

Im keeping everything crossed for you and hoping its nothing but implementation bleeding. Im so sorry I totally understand how anxious and scared you must be feeling. I hope you can get to see your medical team. You are in my thoughts xxx

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Klndmr in reply to Applepie7

Thank you ever so much Hun! Not so cared to be honest just anxious but still hopeful one will make it, hope dies last isn't it πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

No no no no. Oh, my heart is going out to you. I'm keeping everything crossed that one of them hangs in there xxx

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Klndmr in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Thank you ever so much Hun! That's all I'm praying for too that one will turn out to be a fighter! Love and hugs your way β€οΈπŸ€—πŸŒ»πŸ™β€οΈ

Ahhhh no!!! I am so sorry to read this! I hope you are ok. It’s really not fair! Will they do another scan for you? Sending you a big hug πŸ€— xxx

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Klndmr in reply to Jrss1

I'm okay thank you. The bloody bleeding has increased so doc said to rest for a day or two and then we will check if anything has survived πŸ™ˆπŸ€—πŸ₯°πŸ™ So I'll be holding to the hope of one to survive xxz πŸ₯°πŸ€—

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Jrss1 in reply to Klndmr

Ah hun, it’s just so shit!! I’m so sorry. I was so excited for you. Let’s not think the worst now though. It could be a simple thing and that your body is under stress because there’s two in there? I will be thinking about you all the time and if you need to chat or anything just let me know

xxx❀️❀️❀️

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Klndmr in reply to Jrss1

Thank you ever so much! Let's see what the next few days bring β€οΈπŸ€—πŸ₯°β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

Can they scan you?

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Klndmr in reply to Bluelady-sing

In a couple of days time they will. So will wait and see ❀️❀️❀️

I’m sorry I don’t have any advice as I’ve never been pregnant (yet 🀞🏻) but just wanted to send you my love as I’ve followed your journey so far πŸ’• I hope those little embies are hanging in there. Sending you all my love ❀️

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Klndmr in reply to ZiggyandBC

Thank you ever so much! I'll be holding on to the hope that one survives! Love and hugs your way too XXX ❀️❀️❀️πŸ₯°

I'm so sorry to read thisπŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜” hoping one of the embryos stays❀️ sending you all the positive vibes and biggest hugs❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️

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Klndmr in reply to SK73

I'm sure one is gone as things got worse unfortunatelyπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ But will still keep the hope that one stays πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€žπŸ€žπŸŒ»πŸŒ»πŸŒ»xxx Lots of hugs your way too xx

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SK73 in reply to Klndmr

Will they do another scan to see? Xxxx

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Klndmr in reply to SK73

Yes, will have one Monday or Tuesday XXX

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SK73 in reply to Klndmr

Got everything crossed for you lovely ❀️❀️❀️

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Klndmr in reply to SK73

Thank you ever so much ❀️❀️❀️

Don’t lose hope my lovely. I know it’s hard and I can’t even imagine what you’re going through but I have all my fingers crossed for you ❀️ I’m sending all my positive vibes your way xxxx

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Klndmr in reply to Mahriya

Thank you ever so much! Confronting myself with a jar of Nutella πŸ™ˆπŸ˜…β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

Oh lovely I’m so gutted for you. Keeping everything crossed it’s not going the worst though. Sending positive vibes your way. Will they scan you again?x

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Klndmr in reply to KiboXX

Thank you ever so much! I'll get a scan Monday or Tuesday but in all honesty I'm pretty sure it's all gone XXX but hey hope dies last ❀️❀️❀️πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

Sending you lots of positive vibes πŸ’–Could it be just irritation of cervix after scan and due to pessaries?

Don't give up hope! I have everything crossed for you 🀞 xx

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Klndmr in reply to User20

Thank you ever so much Hun! I thought it was irritated cervix too but as the day progressed is now a full flow with clots so no much hope left. So let's see what happens ❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️

Sending you some positive vibes xx

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Klndmr in reply to Marley15

Thank you ❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️

Such a worry for you lovely. It doesn’t mean it’s all over, my sister had this around the same time and her boy is now 3. They said it was the second sac. Channelling positive thoughts and love your way xx

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Klndmr in reply to Daisy1245

That's what my hope is too. But its now like a full flow period with clots and not much hope has left in my heart. But still we never know isnt it? ❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️

Oh no. I'm so sorry, love. It's ridiculously unfair you have to go through all this anxiety and uncertainty. I'll be keeping absolutely everything crossed the bigger of the embies is still doing fine. xxx

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Klndmr in reply to Redsequin

Thank you ever so much! Let's see what happens ❀️πŸ₯°β€οΈπŸ₯°β€οΈπŸ₯°

Oh noooo. I'm so sorry you are going through this hun πŸ˜”. It must be petrifying and stressful for you. But there is definitely hope. Hoping the little embies are still hanging in there. The wait for your next scan must be tough for you and may seem like a very long wait. Try to stay positive and do a bit of deep breathing evry now and then. We are all hoping for the best for you and that the next scan will show a positive result. Praying for you, sending you positive vibes and sticky dust. Keeping everything crossed for you πŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ’• ❀️

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Klndmr in reply to Katiluna

I'm trying to stay positive and realistic at the same time. I'll prepare myself for both outcomes, let's hope next week brings a miracle ❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️ thank you ever so much πŸ₯°β€οΈπŸ₯°β€οΈπŸ™

😘😘😘😘 massive hugs to you. You are so strong and such an inspiration xxx

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Klndmr in reply to Boo718

Awww thank you ever so much! I'm trying my best to always stay positive no matter what β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

Sending lots of positive vibes. It could be nothing or it could be the one embryo but don’t be too hard on yourself xxx

Cramping and spotting is not always a bad thing. Remember that. Sending you lots of love xxx 😘

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Klndmr in reply to Faith103

Thank you ever so much! I'm still hopeful one will survive πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸŒ» Lots of love you way too XXX

I’m crossing everything for you xxx

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Klndmr in reply to Star241

Thank you! ❀️❀️❀️

I hope 🀞 all goes well for you. Lots of women do bleed in early pregnancy. I had two embies transferred and two heart beats at the early scan. But bled from around 6 to 13 weeks. The stronger baby is now my beautiful 9.5 month old. Hoping this works out for you xx

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Klndmr in reply to Orangeflowers

Awwww thank you! And I'm really happy you've got your miracle next to you! Let's see what happens I'm praying for a miracle too β€οΈπŸ™πŸ€ž Love and smiles your way xx

I am praying for you and everything crossed. Hope it is just 1 and the bigger one holds on. Lots of love, prayers and hugs. Hang in there. β™₯οΈπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€—πŸ€

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Klndmr in reply to Babyrainbow

That's what I'm praying for too! Thank you ever so much! πŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°Xxx

I’m sorry to hear your going through some bleeding & cramps it must be so worrying. But we are all sending you positive thoughts & hope ! Don’t lose hope just yet , everything could be well. Il be hoping your little embryo’s are holding on . I hope your managing to rest take care lovely ! Your in my thoughts xx

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Klndmr in reply to butterfliez

Thank you ever so much! After half a jar of Nutella and some more food afterwards I feel a bit better πŸ™ˆ still bleeding though but hope dies last, will be hoping for the best until the scan πŸ₯°πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸŒ»πŸŒ»πŸŒ»πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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butterfliez in reply to Klndmr

Anything to make you feel a bit better hun ! That’s funny because I was having a bad morning so had Nutella for breakfast I never do this it did help ( comfort in a jar) Indeed hold on to the hope 🀞🀞

It’s like you can’t catch your breathe for a moment In this game isn’t it.

Hopefully they’ll get you in for that scan as soon as they can xx

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Klndmr in reply to butterfliez

Definitely comfort in a jar, that's the best way to describe it 🀣🀣🀣🀣 Yeap no way to catch a breath, glimpse of hope and then sh..t, then another glimpse of hope and then sh..t again πŸ˜…

But what can we do, hope for the best and then if it doesn't work just carry on and try again and again and again πŸ™ˆ

Love and hugs your way XXX

Fingers crossed it’s nothing I bled so much during my pregnancy from early on till I had my baby I really hope it’s the same for you hun xx

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Klndmr in reply to Cmc2020

Aww thank you ever so much, I really hope so too πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

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Cmc2020 in reply to Klndmr

Me too I’m praying for you and I’m thinking positive 🀞🀞🀞🀞🀞🀞 see after miscarriages etc soon as you see blood you think the worst I know I did too but it’s not always a bad thing I hated when people said that but it’s true xx

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Klndmr in reply to Cmc2020

True, but with my previous losses I had just spotting to start with, where today TMI in the afternoon was way too much blood with cramps, but I'll still remain hopeful until the scan we never know isn't it, there might be a miracle πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

Sending you lots of love and luck..praying for you ❀️

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Klndmr in reply to supportplease

Thank you ever so much! ❀️❀️❀️

Sending you hugs praying it will all be ok πŸ€πŸ’•πŸ™ xx

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Klndmr in reply to AN791

Aww thank you! I really hope so! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

I'm so sorry you have to go through this again. I cross everything for you that it still will be a positive end to this story. πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ™πŸ™

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Klndmr in reply to zytajones

Thank you! Let's see what tomorrow brings πŸ™ˆπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

Just wanted to say I’m thinking of you and sending positive thoughts. Such a difficult journey.

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Klndmr in reply to Chasing123

Thank you! It is, but what can we do. All we've got left is just to hope for the best! ❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️

Sending lots of love! How are you today? πŸ’–β­οΈ

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Klndmr in reply to Jenniwenni

Thank you! Better thank God! The bleeding has almost gone for now and no cramps,but yesterday afternoon wasn't very pleasant. I still have tiny bit of hope left anyway, hope dies last πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

Sending you positive vibes and hugs. Have everything crossed from you x

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Klndmr in reply to Miracle43

Thank you! Lots of hugs your way too ❀️❀️❀️xxx

So sorry! I know the numb feeling too well. It’s like you don’t want to get too happy, because you know it can all change in a flash. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through… it’s unfair 🌺 xx

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Klndmr in reply to BettyBe

It's unfair but what can we do isn't it! Will be hoping until doctor says otherwise πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ I still have some tiny tiny hope xx

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BettyBe in reply to Klndmr

Fingers crossed that there’s good news πŸ’– xx

Sending you positive vibes. Stay positive until proven otherwise. I had bad bleeding and clots that big I thought it was the baby that had come out. I was sure it was over but low and behold on the scan the baby was still there with a heartbeat and now she's 18 months old and is just perfect. They couldn't even see where the bleeding was from.

Wishing you all the luck in the world, its a horrible rollorcoaster xx

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Klndmr in reply to st1984

That's great! I'm glad it al worked out! I'm still hopeful, thank you ever so much! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ™ˆ

Thinking of you and hoping everything turns out ok ❀️❀️❀️ Xxx

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Klndmr in reply to Roobs33

Thank you ever so much! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈ

Hi Klndmr, really hope you're ok ❀️ sorry to hear this it's so stressful and worrying. I too had bleeding and clots and they said it was one embryo coming away. I also had a subchorionic bleed which made it worse. There can be a few reasons for the bleeding so keep hopeful until next scan. Thinking of you lovely xxxx

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Klndmr in reply to Littlepeax

Heyyy Littlepeax thank you ever so much! I'm praying that's the case with me too! One of the sacs and the embryo in it looked so well on the scan on Friday, nice size and very well tucked in, doc was really pleased with it. I'm really hoping is the small one that's caused all that bleeding yesterday. Today feeling much better, no cramps, no bleeding let's hope it's a good sign. Doc made me stop the blood thinners and the aspirin while I bleed, I guess they can increase the flow. Tomorrow can't come quick enough! Hope is all well with you! Millions hugs your way πŸ₯°πŸ₯° xxx

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Littlepeax in reply to Klndmr

So glad to hear bleeding has stopped and one embryo was looking really well ❀️ that's really good to hear. Lots of hugs to you lovely πŸ™ come on little embie xxx ❀️❀️❀️

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Klndmr in reply to Littlepeax

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Only just saw your post and am so so sorry that you’re going through this. Sending you all the hope, positive wishes and hugs. Xxxx

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Klndmr in reply to Solly-44

Thank you ever so much! I'm still hopeful though, let's see what tomorrow brings! Hugs your way too xxxx

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Solly-44 in reply to Klndmr

You have every reason to still have hope! Great news that the cramps/bleeding have stopped. Keeping everything crossed for tomorrow xx

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Klndmr in reply to Solly-44

Thank you thank you thank you πŸ’žπŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

Thinking of you, lovely, and sending you lots of love and positive vibes and thoughts ❀️❀️❀️❀️

Thank you ever so much! ❀️❀️❀️

Ah I'm so sorry to hear this!! It's just so unfair and stressful for you. You've been through so much!!! Aalll fingers and toes crossed for news on Monday or Tuesday. I hope the bleeding has calmed down for you today xx

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Klndmr in reply to Hoop123

Thank you ever so much! No cramps and bleeding today, sooo I still have some hope! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

So sorry you are going through this, my prayers are with you and God will make all things beautiful for youπŸ™β™₯️

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Klndmr in reply to Godofmiracle

Thank you ever so much! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

Oh no honey! I really hope the bleeding has settled. I've got everything crossed for you, sending lots of love and hugs.xxxx

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Klndmr in reply to Cinderella5

The bleeding has settled today, no cramps or anything like that. I still have some hope left, hope dies last πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ Love and hugs your way too xxxx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Klndmr

Oh that's good news. Rest up and take it easy sweets. You're so very brave!β€οΈπŸ€—πŸ₯°πŸ’ͺ🏻xxx

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Klndmr in reply to Cinderella5

I have 3 of my 6 sisters in law around, they don't let me move 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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Cinderella5 in reply to Klndmr

Ha ha ha they're doing a great job then!!🀣xxx

Hey hope everything’s okay, fingers crossed 🀞 for you xx

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Klndmr in reply to ellen541

I'm much better today, thank you. It's like nothing happened yesterday. I still have some hope left πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€πŸ€β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

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ellen541 in reply to Klndmr

Yeah m glad your feeling better , our body’s love to do do crazy things to mess with our heads. Definitely something to be hopeful for big hugs πŸ€— and let me know how you get along xx

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Klndmr in reply to ellen541

I will definitely do that! Thank you πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€—πŸ€—β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

I'm sorry you're having such a rollercoaster! It is tough! Hopefully at least one of the embryos has the same fighter spirit as you and is still sticking around and will continue to develop well despite all the bleeding. Look after yourself and hopefully you'll get some good news tomorrow!

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Klndmr in reply to Sandyels

Thank you! I'm much better today, no cramps and no bleeding let's hope one has survived πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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Sandyels in reply to Klndmr

It is good it has settled down today :)

Sorry to hear all of this. Gosh it's really up and down isn't it. Hopefully your scan tomorrow gives you some answers and some good news. You are the most wonderful and caring positive person and I'm really rooting for you. Xxxx

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Klndmr in reply to Joeysjourney

Awwww thank you ever so much! Such lovely words, made me smile πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸŒžπŸŒžπŸŒžπŸŒ»πŸŒ»πŸŒ»πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€ Let's see what today brings πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€πŸ€

Sending you the positive vibes, hope one got stuck.

Thank you ever so much! I really really hope so! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€žπŸ€πŸ€πŸ€β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

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