Feeling irritated..

[E_05]

Hi Ladies,

The last 48 hrs have been quite emotional - my puppy became quite unwell on Friday and was admitted into the vets. I got her last year after I miscarried and she was the same age as I would of been pregnant so we have a particular special bond. I felt like I'd failed her and a lot of emotions of losing her like I had my baby came flooding back..

She is however recovering at home now but I feel irritated at everything my husband does at the mo. I know I'm tired, emotional because of it all and hormonal from down reg but he can't even breath without me snapping. I know it's nothing he's done and I've told him how I'm feeling. I just feel bad for keep having a go yet can't seem to stop myself.

Sorry for the rant just so helps to write it all down x

[Hidden]

Aww bless you, glad your pup is recovering well. Don't beat yourself up, I'm sure your hubby understands the strain you're going through, he will be too of course. Talking always helps xx

[E_05 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you xx

[kelsbels88]

Aww bless you!

You are not the only one I think it's quite natural when there is so much pressure put upon you and so much worry.

I get upset and emotional with my hubby all the time. I want to blame him for the issues when I know that is probably not true but he doesn't understand how I'm feeling emotionally, although he tries.

Glad your little puppy is ok and recovering.

Xxx

[E_05 in reply to kelsbels88]

Thank you, that's how I feel to I guess its always different for the man as it's not them being pumped full of hormones to xx

[Tugsgirl]

Glad to hear your puppy is doing well. I hope she stays that way xx

[E_05 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you x

[Lou9]

As a fellow dog lover I completely understand how you are feeling and I am so pleased to hear your precious pup is recovering at home.

Can also relate to the irritability... and I can't blame it on treatment as we haven't started yet! It is such a difficult time and your husband will know how stressed you are. Sometimes I find it helpful to write down exactly what is annoying me, even if it sounds ridiculous - in fact I did it last week and it really helped. A long walk and some fresh air can help too. Or if all else fails, scream into a pillow. 😂 Thinking of you! X

[E_05 in reply to Lou9]

Thank you, it definitely brought up a lot of hard memories having to leave her there.

That's a good idea, I think I may buy a notebook and keep it as like a diary xx

[Hidden]

If it's any help, I've been married to my hubby for 38 years and he has irritated me pretty much every day since day one; I used to write things down but ran out of cupboard space! Love him to bits but sometimes 🙄

Hope things are easier today, hug that pup it always helps x 💐x

[E_05 in reply to Hidden]

Ah that made me chuckle about your hubby! Thank you, feeling a little less stressed now she's back home and her normal self x

[Jane_86]

Aww sometimes I think I love dogs more than people

So glad to hear that your puppy is doing well.

Don't blame yourself or husband - it definitely doesn't help. You know everyone has such periods

[E_05 in reply to Jane_86]

Haha me to! Thank you, yeah we sure do 🙂

[Jane_86 in reply to E_05]

What kind of puppy do you have?

pug?

[E_05 in reply to Jane_86]

2 working cocker spaniels but it was my older out of the 2 that was kept in.

[Jane_86 in reply to E_05]

aww they are awesome!