Consultation today- Why do i feel so nervous? What questions should i ask?

[lauren3189]

Hi ladies,

Full of nerves today, my mind has been going into overdrive all week thinking about every possible scenario.

I have started to make a list of questions does anyone have any questions i really need to ask? xx

[E_05]

Wishing you lots of luck for today - hope you get some answers. Totally understandable to be feeling the way you are xx

[lauren3189 in reply to E_05]

Thanks so much

I am hoping i come out feeling more positive xx

[E_05 in reply to lauren3189]

That's okay, you'll have to let us know how you get on. I think once you know like a plan it's something to focus on which does help in a strange way xx

[lauren3189 in reply to E_05]

I am panicking about all sorts at the minute, i am getting married in October so i will need to mention that if they tell us when treatment could start xx

[E_05 in reply to lauren3189]

Honestly that's natural, I still do that now and try and think of every possible scenario. Yeah they do ask if you've got anything planned coming up, like they've always asked me about holidays etc which is no way as exciting as getting married! xx

[lauren3189 in reply to E_05]

oh good glad to know so hopefully they can plan around that. i would like to get the wedding done and then i can focus on this. The funding worries me on case they take it from under our feet in the time of waiting! xx

[E_05 in reply to lauren3189]

Definitely you want to enjoy your wedding and then be able to focus on treatment after. I'm sure that's something you can discuss with them like if they know there's gona be cuts etc coming up, I know every area/clinic is different xx

[lauren3189 in reply to E_05]

yes hopefully they can give me an idea, if there was to be cuts i would rather start straight away!xx

[E_05 in reply to lauren3189]

Have you got long to wait till your appointment, as in is it this morning? X

[lauren3189 in reply to E_05]

it's at 2 so finishing half day at work then 1 hour drive to the clinic. xx

[E_05 in reply to lauren3189]

Oh okay, least you've got work to kind of keep you busy xx

[lauren3189 in reply to E_05]

yes just clock watching now. I will feel better once i have picked my partner up i think xx

[E_05 in reply to lauren3189]

Yeah I'm sure you will, I always do. You'll have each other for support then to Xx

[lauren3189 in reply to E_05]

thank you

i hope all is going well for you? xx

[E_05 in reply to lauren3189]

I'm starting to feel my anxieties creep back as I start down reg today. Trying not to compare it to my 1st fresh cycle but is easier said than done xx

[lauren3189 in reply to E_05]

aww i wish you all the best with this time round.xx

[Shanks_21]

Good luck sweet hope it goes well - they are normally pretty thorough and should answer any questions you may want answering without the need to ask if you do have anything specific u want to know write it down so u don't forgot - I forgot to ask something at my last appointment and had to ring them up afterwards which was a faff xxxx

[lauren3189 in reply to Shanks_21]

Thanks hun will let you know

Yes i hope they tick off my questions without me asking.xxx

[Shannon1400]

Good luck lauren x

[Shannon1400]

Good luck lauren x

[emiraven62]

Good luck! I hope all went well.

xx