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Consultation today- Why do i feel so nervous? What questions should i ask?

Hi ladies,

Full of nerves today, my mind has been going into overdrive all week thinking about every possible scenario.

I have started to make a list of questions does anyone have any questions i really need to ask? xx

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Wishing you lots of luck for today - hope you get some answers. Totally understandable to be feeling the way you are xx

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Thanks so much :-)

I am hoping i come out feeling more positive xx

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That's okay, you'll have to let us know how you get on. I think once you know like a plan it's something to focus on which does help in a strange way xx

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I am panicking about all sorts at the minute, i am getting married in October so i will need to mention that if they tell us when treatment could start xx

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Honestly that's natural, I still do that now and try and think of every possible scenario. Yeah they do ask if you've got anything planned coming up, like they've always asked me about holidays etc which is no way as exciting as getting married! xx

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oh good glad to know so hopefully they can plan around that. i would like to get the wedding done and then i can focus on this. The funding worries me on case they take it from under our feet in the time of waiting! xx

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Definitely you want to enjoy your wedding and then be able to focus on treatment after. I'm sure that's something you can discuss with them like if they know there's gona be cuts etc coming up, I know every area/clinic is different xx

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yes hopefully they can give me an idea, if there was to be cuts i would rather start straight away!xx

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Have you got long to wait till your appointment, as in is it this morning? X

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it's at 2 so finishing half day at work then 1 hour drive to the clinic. xx

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Oh okay, least you've got work to kind of keep you busy xx

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yes just clock watching now. I will feel better once i have picked my partner up i think xx

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Yeah I'm sure you will, I always do. You'll have each other for support then to Xx

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thank you :-)

i hope all is going well for you? xx

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I'm starting to feel my anxieties creep back as I start down reg today. Trying not to compare it to my 1st fresh cycle but is easier said than done xx

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aww i wish you all the best with this time round.xx

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Good luck sweet hope it goes well - they are normally pretty thorough and should answer any questions you may want answering without the need to ask if you do have anything specific u want to know write it down so u don't forgot - I forgot to ask something at my last appointment and had to ring them up afterwards which was a faff xxxx

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Thanks hun will let you know :-)

Yes i hope they tick off my questions without me asking.xxx

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Good luck lauren x

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Good luck lauren x

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Good luck! I hope all went well.

xx

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