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Consultation today- Why do i feel so nervous? What questions should i ask?

lauren3189
lauren3189

Hi ladies,

Full of nerves today, my mind has been going into overdrive all week thinking about every possible scenario.

I have started to make a list of questions does anyone have any questions i really need to ask? xx

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Wishing you lots of luck for today - hope you get some answers. Totally understandable to be feeling the way you are xx

lauren3189
lauren3189 in reply to E_05

Thanks so much :-)

I am hoping i come out feeling more positive xx

E_05
E_05 in reply to lauren3189

That's okay, you'll have to let us know how you get on. I think once you know like a plan it's something to focus on which does help in a strange way xx

lauren3189
lauren3189 in reply to E_05

I am panicking about all sorts at the minute, i am getting married in October so i will need to mention that if they tell us when treatment could start xx

E_05
E_05 in reply to lauren3189

Honestly that's natural, I still do that now and try and think of every possible scenario. Yeah they do ask if you've got anything planned coming up, like they've always asked me about holidays etc which is no way as exciting as getting married! xx

lauren3189
lauren3189 in reply to E_05

oh good glad to know so hopefully they can plan around that. i would like to get the wedding done and then i can focus on this. The funding worries me on case they take it from under our feet in the time of waiting! xx

E_05
E_05 in reply to lauren3189

Definitely you want to enjoy your wedding and then be able to focus on treatment after. I'm sure that's something you can discuss with them like if they know there's gona be cuts etc coming up, I know every area/clinic is different xx

lauren3189
lauren3189 in reply to E_05

yes hopefully they can give me an idea, if there was to be cuts i would rather start straight away!xx

E_05
E_05 in reply to lauren3189

Have you got long to wait till your appointment, as in is it this morning? X

lauren3189
lauren3189 in reply to E_05

it's at 2 so finishing half day at work then 1 hour drive to the clinic. xx

E_05
E_05 in reply to lauren3189

Oh okay, least you've got work to kind of keep you busy xx

lauren3189
lauren3189 in reply to E_05

yes just clock watching now. I will feel better once i have picked my partner up i think xx

E_05
E_05 in reply to lauren3189

Yeah I'm sure you will, I always do. You'll have each other for support then to Xx

lauren3189
lauren3189 in reply to E_05

thank you :-)

i hope all is going well for you? xx

E_05
E_05 in reply to lauren3189

I'm starting to feel my anxieties creep back as I start down reg today. Trying not to compare it to my 1st fresh cycle but is easier said than done xx

lauren3189
lauren3189 in reply to E_05

aww i wish you all the best with this time round.xx

Good luck sweet hope it goes well - they are normally pretty thorough and should answer any questions you may want answering without the need to ask if you do have anything specific u want to know write it down so u don't forgot - I forgot to ask something at my last appointment and had to ring them up afterwards which was a faff xxxx

lauren3189
lauren3189 in reply to Shanks_21

Thanks hun will let you know :-)

Yes i hope they tick off my questions without me asking.xxx

Good luck lauren x

Good luck lauren x

Good luck! I hope all went well.

xx

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