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Failed again - BFN πŸ˜’πŸ’”

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
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So that's it! Full of hormones and feeling crappy but still nothing to show for it, no more Frosties for back up, feeling sad, angry and everything in between, think I feel worse this time, but I know it will pass, just need to ride the emotional rollercoaster until it does, although it's more like a log flume at the moment as the tears just keep coming!

We won't give up though, that's it on the NHS for us but we will be trying a fresh cycle again, I'm considering going to have the tests for implantation failure, already have the info so just have to wait for my body to do its thing and natural cycle to start again.

Good luck to everyone else in their 2ww hope to see more BFP to give some hope to this madness xxx

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So sorry to hear this and wishing you much luck for a future cycle πŸ€ xx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you. Hope your appt next week goes well xx

Tugsgirl
Tugsgirl
in reply to Nemobaby

Thank you xx

Sorry to hear this Nemobaby! Its so hard after a failed cycle. Plan something nice for yourselves to do and allow yourself time to grieve! Big hugs!xx

Thank you, think we might need to book a holiday soon xx

I am so sorry Nemo...the worst news when you have put yourself through so much. Thinking of you and sending hugs xx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to CountryCat

Thank you. Hope you're doing ok, fingers crossed you get a bfp xx

CountryCat
CountryCat
in reply to Nemobaby

Bless you. Take great care of yourself x

Hidden
Hidden

So sorry to hear this BFN's are so cruel, take time out and look after yourself xxx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to Hidden

Thank you. Hope you're doing ok, fingers crossed for you xx

So sorry to hear his πŸ˜” xx

Thank you. Fingers crossed a bfp is heading your way xx

I'm sorry to hear that; take good care of yourselves. My thoughts and prayers are with you x

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to Sherry07

Thank you. Hope you're doing ok xx

Sherry07
Sherry07
in reply to Nemobaby

Thanks, trying my best to get back to normality after a natural miscarriage. Tough time x

So sorry to hear this all the best for ur next cycle xx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to Tara123

Thank you. Hope you're feeling better, fingers crossed for you xx

So sorry to see your post. I hope you have better luck with your next cycle and get some peace and relaxation time over the coming weeks as you recover from all of the drugs and the emotions of it all. xxx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to _MrsC

Thank you. Hope your doing ok with your cycle, fingers crossed for you xx

_MrsC
_MrsC
in reply to Nemobaby

Thank you Hun. x

So sorry to hear this Nemobaby, it never gets any easier to get a bfn after all we've been through to get there. Glad you have a plan and can focus on that when you've grieved and got your head together. I'm thinking the same about implantation testing, especially after a chemical pregnancy last week, I'm sure there's something going wrong there, after 4 cycles with good embryos. Going to ask advice from our consultant when we get an appointment through.

Wishing you all the best for the future xx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to Georgina78

Thank you, I hope you're coping as well as you can after your sad news, you must be very strong to go through 4 cycles. It's a tough journey but hopefully the miracle of science will get us where we all want to be 🀞🏻 xxx

So sorry Hun! It's crushing! But liking your spirit at not giving up!! Big hugs xxx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to 72cloud9

Thank you. Fingers crossed for your test date! πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ€ xx

72cloud9
72cloud9
in reply to Nemobaby

Ah thanks Hun, appreciate that with what u r going thru xxx

I'm so sorry to read this it really is the worst feeling x

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to ch319

Thank you, hope you're doing ok xx

Sorry to read this, life can be an absolute shit at time (excuse my language!!) thinking of you at this time xx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to Aleelilook

It sure can, it needs a swift hard kick in the balls right now!! Hope you're ok, good luck with your next cycle xx

Aleelilook
Aleelilook
in reply to Nemobaby

Thank you hun xxx

Sorry to be reading this nemobaby, I know nothing I say will make you feel better. It's good you have a plan in place. Best wishes xxx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to NDE1987

Thank you, it's nice to have the support of so many that understand xx

So sorry lovely - wish you all the best for your next step xx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to Pumpkin36

Thank you. Good luck with your cycle xx

Pumpkin36
Pumpkin36
in reply to Nemobaby

Thank you xx

Sorry to hear this - wishing you all the best in your recovery and your strength to go again when you're ready xx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to 7AVA

Thank you xx

Aww so sorry.bfn sucks.try to stay hopeful and take care of yourself.xx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to Lawmom

Thank you, hope you're doing ok xx

Lots of love Nemo xx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to emu2016

Thank you, hope you're doing ok, have a nice restful weekend xx

Sorry to hear this ❀❀

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to hannahi

Thank you xx

I am so sorry to read this. It is just so so hard. We are in the same position and now going private for our 3rd cycle.let's hope we both get bfps soon xxxx

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to vic77

Thank you, it's not fair is it ☹️ fingers crossed third time lucky is a real thing! Take care xx

So sorryπŸ’” Take time for the tears to flow , then get back up fighting xxβ€πŸŒˆπŸ’‹

Nemobaby
Nemobaby
in reply to Sunshine09

Thank you, I will fight on. Sorry to see your sad news too, hope you're doing ok xx

Sunshine09
Sunshine09
in reply to Nemobaby

That's the stuff!! Doing much better,just like you not giving up, πŸŒˆβ€πŸ’‹

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