hi all! recently I took part in fertility treatment discussion on the web and one question is still haunting me. first of all, don't get me wrong. I'm a mother and I'm happy about this fantastic gift. But I just want to know WHY do you want to have children? Why am I curious about it? well, one woman shared her experience. she said that she would rather die than live her life without children. But she mentioned that it's bad not to have children, every person has to leave something, or someone in this case, after death. appears that society takes it for granted when a woman has a baby. actually very often she has no choice or doesn't want to choose something else. we, women, know that we are meant to be mothers and we follow this path blindly. When I found out that I was infertile, I decided to fight for my future family. and you know, I didn't think 'why' and 'what for'. like someone took something that belongs only to me and I need to take back what's mine. Have you ever thought aboutthese things? Can you tell me why you chose to be parents?