Hi! Im new and in need of advise from those who have had a failed cycle - where do I go from here?
We endured 4 years of fertility treatment at Treliske in Cornwall - not great care or service and made to feel like piece of meat on a factory conveyor belt. Eventually I had had enough after they suggested a fourth round of IUI. I insisted on my one-free go at IVF. We went to Exeter Fertility in 2014 and had a good egg collection (11 eggs) which resulted in 8 embryos- 5 viable. They put one in and we got lucky first time - little boy Austin is coming up for his second birthday in May!
We felt blessed and I was probably a bit silly to think that the embryos we had frozen would also turn into healthy children to complete our family.
We returned to Exeter for a FET cycle at the end of January - 2 embryos survived thawing and were viable so we had them both popped in. However, the cycle failed and we are now back to square one.
My query is - what do I do now? Im devastated, I think the husband blames me for cycle not working as I have been stressed with work and I am desperate for a big family. I am ever-so fortunate to have fallen pregnant first time and I know that some ladies never get to experience what I have and I am grateful.
Does anyone think I should go with Exeter Fertility again - they dont have great reviews but these werent brought to my attention until after our failed cycle. I feel let down by them as the experience this time round was not good and as a paying customer their 'service' was dire.
Does anyone have any experience with Plymouth for fertility? I have emailed them 2 weeks ago but no response.
I feel isolated here in Cornwall and would like to be recommended to a great clinic?
Sorry - long post. Just feeling lost, depressed and worried - financially we can afford one more go, then we will have to start selling possessions!