I knew it hadn't worked In my heart that's why I was trying to do a test yesterday .
Absolutely devastated after a chemical pregnancy first go then an abandoned cycle 2nd go and now this starting to feel like it's just not meant to be....... we have 1 more go and I'm not sure I have the strength any more.
Now we have to go for blood test at clinic as they don't do pregnancy tests at all and see all there successful baby pictures they have splattered on the corridor as you go in ..... always thought it was a stupid idea it certain rubs your nose in it ..... 😢
Congratulations to all that have got BFP, I hope you all have happy and healthy pregnancys and good luck to all on 2ww or people starting this journey I hope you get your miracles we all pray for.
Thank you, it certainly is a rough ride😕..... we have a holiday booked for a week Friday in the lake district so that should give us some head clearing time xx
am so sorry to read this. My heart goes out to you. You will find strength when you're ready. I know what you mean about the pictures. After my second miscarriage we were going to the clinic and there was a scan picture on the wall. That really upset me as it wasn't something we were going to see that day. Stay strong. Sending lots of love xx
I'm so sorry to see it hasn't worked this time but please don't give up.
Me and my partner had a chemical naturally 2 years ago and then our 1st cycle was terminated and then our 2nd go ended in a bfn. But I've now had our follow up appointment and I've finally got my head straight and now looking forward. We've booked a holiday to get away to take some time out for us. But one thing my doctor said to me which I never really thought of was - when people are trying naturally it takes a min of 3-6 months to conceive, in those months yes the egg may fertilise but may not stick which is exactly what is happening with us, so I know some people are lucky first time but you have to remember every cycle is like one month so when it doesn't happen 1st time or even the 2nd or 3rd please don't be hard on yourself 💕
I'm sorry to read this Cocker. It's so unfair and such a cruel process/journey. Take some time out for yourself and enjoy being off the hamster wheel for a while. When you're ready come back for your next and hopefully last cycle. Sending love x x x
This hope is the sole thing that was helping me for some time. I have to be honest with you, I was having a lot of dark thoughts back in the days after the surgery and this thought and my husband's support were the only things that could help me at all. I remember I felt like I was left out of this world, like I did not have any friends any dreams, I thought about my future as of a hopeless time....
but I had this hope... I was hoping for something and it helped. I am sure that you will be sooner or later holding your little miracles in your hands and smiling like the happiest person, WOMAN in the world
Well, yes, I am now in Kiev (it is where my clinic is located) waiting till Thursday for the 12 weeks scan. Oh my. We still haven't met our SM but it is going to be happening in 2 days. just 2 days. I am trying not to panic or something as I feel overwhelmed. I really wish you the same, I am sure that you won't be left out from this
I am sure that in the future you'll going to post something as joyful and happy as my posting. Just wait!
So sorry to hear this, I know how you feel as we have just started our 4th cycle but don't give up, have a break and rest from it all then you will get your fighting spirit back. Big hugs xxx
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Thank you, it's a rough ride certainly. We have some time away next week so we will get some head piece and no doubt come back fighting ..... it's just hard to think that our next round will be our last.
Good luck with your cycle and hope you get a BFP X
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Thanks Hun and time away will do you the world of good. This is our 4th cycle but 1st with DE xxx
Sorry to hear that you've gotten a BFN! Its such an emotionally and physically draining process all of this and to come out of it with nothing is rubbish! Try to enjoy your time away in the Lakes and get some quality time together before you decide where you go from here.xx
Thank you, it certainly is a hard journey for all involved, clinic has given us a review appointment for 23rd so hopefully will have heads gathered by then.
We will definitely throw ourselfs into our holiday and just switch off x
Thank you, the lakes us our favourite place to go to give us some head peace, we have our review appointment the week after 😕 so hopefully we will have our heads back in gear xx
The emotional turmoil is a killer. Up down up down. People just don't get how hard it is. .hope, then shattered and then hope. My only way to get through it is to have fun things planned in the diary. Next month's gonna be a killer as my sister gives birth after getting pregnant right away. My husband and I have even talked of a life abroad. Good luck to you xxxx
It certainly is a killer 🙁, me and the hubby had a good drunken chat last night and we are both hoping that clinic have another plan rather than just repeat what they did last time just to give us more hope.
Oh God that does sound like it's going to be a tough month, I've had sister in laws give birth but thankfully they don't live near us so I've been able to avoid them, so I can totally understand you talking about moving abroad.
I've also got a lady at work preganant and another lady going through ivf this month ( I don't discuss treatment with lady as she can't keep her gob shut about my treatment) .
Although I don't begrudge anyone a child it's gonna be killer if I have 2 pregnant lady's working with me 🙁 .
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