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BFN this morning. Completely numb!! Don't know what to think or feel.I kind of knew it all along but still I'm devastated.😥

There are a lot of girls on here having big results in one way or another today and over next week-want to wish u all success and blessings xxx

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emmab178

Oh no. So sorry to hear this news. Big hugs x

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Tigerlily01

aww noo im so sorry to hear that, i hope you are ok take time out to treat yourself i cant imagine how you must be feeling its horrible. my test date is the 26th im so scared to test i havent really had any symptoms or any spotting so im really unsure. xxxx

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Cinderella5

Awww Im so sorry to hear that 72cloud9 ! Sending you both big hugs!!xx

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-noodles-

very sorry to hear this, it is so cruel when you have been through so much already.

hope you find strength to get through next few days & weeks.

sending lots of love xx

Aww I am so sorry to hear this, look after yourself xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thinking of you. Take care x

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MommaBear16

I've been thinking about you all morning, I am so sorry to read this lovely. It's so unfair. Please take some time out from everything and be kind to yourself. Sending so much love x x x

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Sunshine09

Numb will be an understatement, sending love and hugs, take plenty time to heal mrs, you are a strong lady, devastated for you ❤💋💋💋

I'm so sorry to hear that my lovely after everything you've been through. It's such a hard journey to be on, I thought I was pregnant when I had my last treatment using donor eggs and within minutes I felt my world had crashed.

I would give yourself some time for you now, perhaps go away for a weekend break and then decide what you are going to do.

I'm here for you if you need me.

Hugs xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi 72cloud9. I just wanted to thank you for thinking of all the others who are waiting at this moment, while you are suffering so. So sorry and I'm thinking of YOU too. Diane

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pinto8

Aaww I'm so sorry 72cloud9 !! There's not enough words to be said just take some time off and don't forget one day you'll have your baby. Sending you big hugs

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misswinky34

I'm sorry sweetheart x

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Fatooli28

Very sorry, no words can console you, we all know that. Just concentrate on you, what you've been through we all know too well, positive or negative we all have to look to the future and continue hoping. From one who has had the BFN to another, I, along with many others will be thinking of you. Strength and positivity to you and your partner 💋❤️🌈🙏🏼

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CheshireKit

Oh I'm so so sorry to hear your news, it is truly devastating. There aren't any words I can say that will make it better but please know you're not on your own and I'm sending big hugs xxx

So sorry to hear this!! Big hugs to you both x

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Nesfin

My hear goes out for you, I so wish I had even a few words to make you feel better.. it is so freakin' unfair, Im gutted for you. Lots of virtual hugs and love xoxo

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webchick

So sorry, it all seems so unfair,most on this site have had disappointment time and time again so will know exactly how your feeling. Take care x

Oh god hunni I'm so sorry to read this. I was hoping it was your time. I want this so much for us all. Nothing anyone can say to make this any better. Thinking of you and wishing you the best with whatever you decide to do next.

X

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Smithha

So sorry to read this :0( Thinking of you xxxx

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Tugsgirl

Truly sorry to read this. My heart sinks with every bfn 😢 Take care x

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Buffy21

I'm so sorry to great your result. I know we are on same schefule. I hope you can get some answers and hopefully try again if that's what you want to do.

May I ask why you had an feeling it would be BFN?Which symptoms did you have/not have?

I'm testing Friday and I'm bricking it 😲

My thoughts are with you this difficult week.xx

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Buffy21

I'm so sorry to great your result. I know we are on same schefule. I hope you can get some answers and hopefully try again if that's what you want to do.

May I ask why you had an feeling it would be BFN?Which symptoms did you have/not have?

I'm testing Friday and I'm bricking it 😲

My thoughts are with you this difficult week.xx

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72cloud9 in reply toBuffy21

Hi Buffy, I didn't really have any symptoms at all & then 2 days b4 period like symptoms but not really cramping just a dull ache & dicky belly like I normally get when I'm due on x

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Buffy21 in reply to72cloud9

Thanks for replying. I must have read every thread on internet to do with 2ww. I'll stop now and just try to think about something else until Friday!

Really hope you be ok.xx

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Georgina78

So sorry to hear this Hun, sending hugs 😔 Xxx

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katya38

So sorry to hear this take care of yourself xx

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C_L_A_I_R_E

Cloud I was so routing for you! I know exactly how your feeling and there are no words to describe it. Here for you if you need to talk. Mine was a bfn today too but I guess I already knew it from y day. You can never tell if it's + or - as I had many symptoms and I know done people get none.

Hugs xxxx

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72cloud9 in reply toC_L_A_I_R_E

Hugs to u 2 Hun, this sucks, doesn't it? But we r strong! We will bounce back xxx

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allieb21

Big hugs my love ❤️ Take some time xxx

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Beebeestar

I'm so sorry. The news is devestating. Please look after yourself...

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Kloulou83

So sorry to hear this 😔 Xx

I'm so sorry - thinking of you x

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baby2016

So sorry 72cloud9 xxx

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San1510

So so so sorry to read this 72cloud9 . Was thinking of you all day today.

Sending you a big massive hug. It's not easy at all.

Please look after yourself

Xxx

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leah30

Sorry to hear this , don't give up though Hun it will happen x

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Beanme

Big huge hugs to you:) xxx

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WeeMrsH

So sorry, keep your chin up xx

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Jaky76

Xxxxxxxxxxxx

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nicknick

I am sorry it didn't work. Have you seen yr doc to find out more? What about doing karyotyping, other additional tests, diagnosis pgs ngs to increase your chances? And please don't give up and I am sure yr time will come. Huge hugs xx

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