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Negative. Sad times.

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Had test results back yesterday and was negative. Absolutely devastated. I had a feeling this wasn't working. Don't know why but just didn't feel any symptoms this time.

Ended up drowning my sorrows with a bottle of wine. Was lovely hadn't had a drink since July.

Having a nice break over christmas and try again in the new year. This year has been horuble so next year hopefully get better news.

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Georgina78

So sorry to hear this Jenkins, you're right it is absolutely devastating and doesn't get any easier I don't think. My OTD is tomorrow but I'm pretty sure it's already over, it's definitely been a hard year for a lot of us.

Hope you manage to enjoy Christmas and 2017 is a better one. Hugs xx

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NDE1987

Hun I'm so sorry to read this. I know exactly how you feel this year has been all about fertility treatments and already have two failed IUIs. I thought ivf was mean to be for us but today iv had blood discharge as I wiped. Just hate this. Hopefully next year is a better year for us. Good luck xxx

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DC13

So sorry to hear you news. How sad. Thoughts are with you. Xxxx

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helsroo

So sorry to hear your sad news. I hope that 2017 is kinder to you xx

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pm27

Sorry to hear it was a BFN.

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that! Look after yourself!x

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allieb21

Hey Hun I had one Monday gone but knew it hadn't worked as AF came on Thursday - when it was due! Found it very hard but getting there.

Seeing doctor on Friday and will go from there.

Am also going to enjoy Christmas and go again in new year.

Hope you okxxx

Sorry to hear that, take care of yourself xxx

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Ro5ie

So sorry to read this hun my test day also was yesterday after fet and was also negative so i know how you feel. we only had the 1 embryo in freeze so we will be doing a full cycle in the new year xx

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HopeGP

So sorry Jenkins :-(

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72cloud9

So sorry to hear that.wishing u best of luck for the new year xxx

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City74

Sorry to hear this news. Wishing you all the best for your next steps

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majibade31

Sorry to hear that Jenkins. Have faith that things will happen when the time is ready. Lots of love.Maria x

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