Negative

[Coles2020]

I done my pregnancy test a day early then OTD and definitely a negative. Not even the faintest of lines. Of course I do it tomorrow but the chances of a turn around is next to nothing right?

I was kind of expecting it as had AF symptoms, though not yet started.

This was my first cycle it’s not funded so will not be able to do second unless a massive change in finances. However I am thinking of Going though the donated embryo route. Has anyone got any experience with this. Thanks

[kitscat]

Hi there Coles. I’m really sorry to hear this. Is this your first cycle?

[Coles2020 in reply to kitscat]

Yes first one. It’s self funded so will be my only one unless I win the Lottery!! My next option is going through the Donated embryo route- don’t want to give up just yet. Congratulations to you btw .........

[anonmous23]

Hi I am so sorry to hear your new, I also had 2 negatives through the NHS system. awful experience.

I am going to india to do privately 3 package deal for less than 4000.00 If it works I will defo offer to ladies on here.

[Coles2020 in reply to anonmous23]

I wish you all the very best of luck xx

[gemmy999]

I’m really sorry to hear you feel like your heading for a BFN. I had to go for a blood test today at my clinic even though I’ve had a full bleed since Sunday! The whole thing is torture. Some people’s tests seem to turn around on OTD 🤞🏻 it just shows when it’s a BFN or BFP we all seem to get the same symptoms from progesterone and AF feeling. There is just no way of knowing until test day.

Sorry I haven’t got any experience of donor embryo. We have our follow up next week to see what our options our. Very scared to be told they think I should give up with my OE. Big hug 🤗 xx

[Coles2020 in reply to gemmy999]

Thanks Gemmy for your reply. Big hugs 🤗 to you too and good luck to ur F/u appointment. I will do the test again tomorrow but don’t think anything will change from today. In some ways I can’t wait to contact FC, I just wanna be in that process again where there is hope. Sorry what’s OE? All the best xxx

[gemmy999 in reply to Coles2020]

Sorry OE (is own eggs) 🤦🏼‍♀️ I am always wanting another plan to help me through but have learnt it’s important to grieve this one and recover so make sure you take the time. I rushed between cycle 1 and 2 and had a big breakdown! So take care of yourself. Good luck for your test tomo 🤞🏻 xx

[Coles2020 in reply to gemmy999]

Thanks gemmy!! Much appreciated very kind that ur reassuring others during ur time of grief and heart ache —- let’s roll this out together. I don’t think I be using my own eggs again as they retrieved 12 but only 1 made it to compacting stage - not blastocyst by day 5. I’m nearly 40 as-well so will be looking into embryo donation. I will give myself abit of time - will need to for funding purposes. Xx

[gemmy999 in reply to Coles2020]

Sorry to hear you had a poor response. See what they say at your follow up. Sometimes the first one is a bit of a practise until they get the right drug regime for you. I had a poor response on my first two cycles. I changed clinics and drugs and had a much better cycle and our first blasto. I do understand financially it’s hard! We are now paying privately also. And a big decision to go to donor. I have been reading the HFEA site today and it states 58% of over 44yrs use donor. For me it’s what ever will get us our family. 🤗 xx

[Coles2020 in reply to gemmy999]

Thanks will let you know tomorrow xxx

[Coles2020 in reply to gemmy999]

Hi gemmy. It was definitely a negative but trying to stay positive though it is a massive heartache. I’m going investigate into the embryo donar route I think. Hope ur coping okay xx

[gemmy999 in reply to Coles2020]

I’m so sorry 😢💔 we will be discussing donor as well. But such a big decision. Look after yourself. It’s a healing process. I’m still very sad 😢 first day I’ve gone out into the world today! xx

[Coles2020 in reply to gemmy999]

I know hun it’s awful I really is greif isn’t it...and painful loss of could of been - it’s very sad!! what Eva happens will lead us to our bundle of joy at the end and will be worth it in the end I’m sure... take care xx

[gemmy999 in reply to Coles2020]

Yes we will get there 🌈 fill your time with lots of love. Xx

[Rowly88]

Sorry to hear your news, thinking of you xx

[HM_3]

My positive came after test day once I started to bleed.....

[Coles2020 in reply to HM_3]

Congratulations to you hun hope same for me tomorrow don’t think it will be though xx