Anothet negative:-(

[Ang24816]

Hi All

So yesterday i started bleeding (8dp 5dt) and it stooped then started again over night, called the ACU and dida test, its another negative. My 3rd out of 4....3rd was positive only to misscarry at 6.5 weeks.

Our issue is my husband has obstructive azoospermia, he produces plenty of sperm it just can't get out. Ive had lots of tests done and am absolutely fine....We have had our embryos graded as top level, it doesnt make sense

Has anyone had experiance similar to mine...reading posts on here it seems alot of people have one or two failures but not as many as me....am i never destined to have a baby.

I have had 4 rounds in one year and am really struggling now....i didnt think a year ago id be here and dont know how to cope.

I get another 2 fets on nhs but dont know if i should stick with them, i know financially it make a sensebut not sure how much more disappointment i can take mentally.

Has anyone opted to go to a private clinic and got better results?

Xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Hi hun

I'm sorry your going through such a hard time. I Don't have advice regarding clinics etc

I just wanted to say that I'm sorry for what your going through and that I think you maybe should take a break to focus on yourself for a bit and have a pamper and break from it all. Then maybe make a desicion after you've had some me time. It certainly sounds like a mentally draining journey aswel as a physically exhausting one. Some together pampering time will most certainly be beneficial for you both. Sending you big hugs and much luck for the future. I'm sure some one will be able to advise you regarding the questions you asked.

Take care hun 🤗😘

[Cinderella5]

Hey I cant offer any advice about the switch from private to NHS but just wanted to to say that Im thinking of you! I know how hard it can be, we've had 3 failed cycles!xx

[nellynel]

Hi I'm not sure of the namessage of this etc but you can gets tests into why they arnt implanting and have intralipid I think i help. Hopefully someone will know more about it

[Fredaflintstone]

So sorry to hear this. You have been through such a lot. I don't have any answers except that my doctor said it's a bit of a numbers game. Worth maybe taking a little time out before trying for further FETs and seeing if there are other investigations they can do first? Look after yourself xxxx

[_MrsC]

I'm so sorry. You've been through so much. I had two cycles this year and found that enough so double that must be incredibly draining. I'm afraid I don't have any advice on what to do next. All I can say is we had two very disappointing cycles and have decided to stop. We are focussing on enjoying our life together and putting our trust in a greater plan.

I hope you can find some peace soon and time to look after yourself and your body. xxx

[Aleelilook]

Ah it's so bloody hard, thinking of you x we had our 3rd failure, well round 2 worked but we had a mmc after our second scan at 8 weeks. I think I've found this failed round so much harder than I first thought, a year of treatment is quite frankly enough to send anyone mad. Perhaps you need to ask your clinic to look at implantation? Mine are putting me on steroids next round, and antibiotics, might be worth asking if it's something to look in to. I stayed with my clinic after I'd used my two rounds of NHS funded as it's a private clinic, so I'm not sure about changing, but I'm sure someone will know! Xxx

[E_05]

So sorry to ready this, I've just had EC for my 4th cycle and totally get how your feeling about the disappointment and mental strain. Maybe take some time for you and do things you enjoy without the stress of IVF hanging over you. Thinking of you xx

[Ang24816]

Thanks all. Really appreciate you taking the time to respond xx

Feeling okay, think we've got used to the disappointment tbh

I spoke to argc clinic in london as their stats are 87% success....they said i need to go online to apply for a consultation and a fet will start at £2,500 with tests....depending on those prices will increase....they mentioned immune issues and blood clotting. Seems like i have issues with implantation which havent been looked into on NHS.

I know it might seem silly to be paying private when we have NHS goes but i dont know how much longer i can wait and keep going with the disappointment.

XX

[Tugsgirl]

I truly hate seeing a bfn on here. It's such a harsh thing to go through. Good luck with whatever you decide xx

[Ang24816 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you hun. Good luck with everything xx

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So sorry for your result - just wanted to wish you all the very best for the next step, whatever you decide to do xxx