Surrogacy (28 yo)

Hello all,

I think here I could rely on your experience and get some support. Like many other women I want to have a big happy family. I was the 7th and the youngest child and my childhood was marvelous. We were very amicable, had our own family traditions and followed them constantly with pleasure. All my sisters and brothers have their own children and try to make them as happy as we were…But I’m the only one infertile. You can’t even imagine how tough this is, I have lots of nephews and sometimes I’m asked to look after them when their parents are out somewhere. I look at them and feel confused. They are so cute and funny, I love them so much but sometimes they make me mad and it seems I hate them sometimes and I hate myself for having such thoughts…

I tried to find out what’s the matter with me and after having an examination dr told me that I have tubal occlusion…don’t even ask how he found out that. I know that even such a serious obstacle is not the end cause there is still a chance of pregnancy, not natural of course, but with IVF. In addition I have a hypertension!!! I’m 28 yo…is that how it supposed to be? So, I can’t get pregnant and I can’t even carry a baby. I can try and express my feelings in my words but it would be a very long story. The only thing I can opt for is surrogacy. I read a lot and even choose few countries where it’s legal and doesn’t cost a million. So, ladies the reason I’m writing here is that I want you to share your experience. Did you find a surrogacy mother on your own? Or you applied for agency or straight for a clinic? Are you satisfied with the process of surrogacy arrangements provided by them? Was it too expensive for you? Did you choose a SM? Did you pay your surromom any extra money or give some gifts? What are advantages and disadvantages of such method I mean from your point of view?

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