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We started TTC in the early 2012, but it always failed miserably. After several months and many trips to our family doctor and specialists, nobody could tell us why it was not happening. I had three different surgeries to find out the reason why I’m not getting pregnant. But nothing was found. Even due to surgeries, one of my fallopian tubes was damaged and it had to be removed. We found many fertility clinics here in Canada. But they were just way too expensive for us.

We were lucky that we found some affordable clinics. There we tried many IUIs and had 2 unsuccessfully IVFs. After 5 long years, I was diagnosed with unexplained infertility. We also started to look into child adoption, but my husband didn’t like this idea. Many people including our doctor have suggested us for surrogacy. We met a couple last week who had their first child through surrogacy. They live here in Canada. But they went to Ukraine for surrogacy. I’ve heard that surrogacy is quite expensive in US and Canada. Is it really a good idea to go abroad for surrogacy?

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Becca21

I think it doesn't make much difference as long as they are able to get us what we're desperately looking for. In fact over my copious amount of internet research, I've found that reproductive is tourism is, in fact, one of the most opted medical tourism. There are a few countries who have come up in the recent years with a breakthrough in assisted fertility. Our concern for looking for a switch is, however, financial - being 36 any IVF further will be self-financed. So, we're looking for alternatives.

Here are a few things you should check if at all you're considering surrogacy abroad.

1. The legal norms. Some countries have some special requirements for surrogacy process.

2. What is the coverage available for multiple tries, I'd advice to select from that.

3. Also, check that what are the liabilities of the clinic wrt failure of the process due to Surrogate mother's negligence.

Hope you find the right clinic. Good luck!

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Morinaa

Hi, SophieLouis

I hope that you're matched with surrogacy issue. My husband and I are looking for surrogacy right now. We also wanted to work on surrogacy with one of the Ukrainian clinics. But it happened that now it is impossible. Honestly, we really regret that we didn’t make our surrogacy journey to Ukraine before. So, we have to search for another country (

Honestly, I don’t know which will be the better one.

If you are managed to get over surrogacy, pls, could you give me any information? Currently, we have 3 directions which are Georgia, Russia, and Greece.

Thanks a lot )

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jeniferr

Surely Sophie! It is a reasonable idea to go abroad for surrogacy. I live in Canada too and had been TTC for the last 6 years. I have been consulting local clinics for my treatment up till now. My second husband decided to visit Ukraine for treatment due to their affordability and expertise. So, we emailed a few clinics in Ukraine to get initial information about facilities and treatment expenditure. We came across some careless and negligent clinics like L***s who didn't even bother to respond to us. We kept emailing them on daily basis for weeks but we got zero response. Fortunately, in our quest, we found an amazing clinic there. They not only shared all required information but also answered all our queries. They even allowed us to do the necessary tests from a local clinic and share our scanned reports via email. We did visit this clinic recently and we were quite delighted by the warm welcome. They are very cooperative and are willing to allow us to visit occasionally. We have already signed our surrogacy contract with the clinic. We are currently finalizing our SM to carry our baby. I think you should also give it a try. Our visit was totally worth it!

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CindyJohn

It is totally a reasonable idea to visit a clinic abroad. You heard it right. Ukrainian clinics offer the best and most affordable treatment. I live in Ireland and I myself am referring to a clinic in Ukraine. Just be a bit cautious while choosing clinic as there are many clinics that deceive patients. I had such an experience with L***s clinic. They are very irresponsible and unprofessional in their approach.

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serraid

Hey, I hope you are doing good. I am so sorry for you. I know you are in so much pain. But I think there is nothing to be worried about. Surrogacy is a good process if you want to go for it. It is not risky at all. Infertility takes a lot out of a woman. I am so sorry you have been through a lot. I think now you should go for the treatment you are comfortable with. My best wishes are with you.

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anabella12

Hi, I am so sorry. This all has been so painful for you. I can understand that you faced a lot. I know this. I think you should go for this treatment. In many clinics, IVF and IUI are quite expensive. They cannot handle the complications of this treatment. Well, IVF success depends on the clinic you choose. I hope that you will find the best clinic to have babies.

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jessicasharman31

Hey, I hope you are doing fine. I am so sorry for you. I know you have been through a lot. I understand you must be in so much pain. I think surrogacy would be best for you. Infertility is very hard to cope with. It is never easy to be childless. I think surrogacy would be best. I am very positive about it. I also had a baby through this process. We had an amazing journey. Don't go for any clinic that is not professional in this field. So before choosing anything you should have a complete knowledge of everything. I hope the best for you. I am in favour of surrogacy because it is a safe and sound method. Choose the best clinic so that you will not face any difficulty in the future. My best wishes are with you. I hope you will be a mother soon. Stay blessed!

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amberjones36

When I was told to go for surrogacy, I was really confused. I could not decide where to go. The confusion stayed until I came to know about a fertility clinic in Ukraine. It is an expert at both the surrogacy and the Ivf. If any IP desires to have the best quality in the best price, he must try visiting this clinic. Whatever cost is given in their catalogue includes all the expenses. Nothing comes as a surprise when you actually go there. The services are adjusted according to different cost packages. What inspired me to choose this clinicis is that they believe in giving the guaranteed results. They ensure that if there is a failure they would not lose hope. Instead they would keep moving ahead until they achieve what are destined for. I am also relaxed as I am not supposed to go from lab to lab for proper testing. This clinic offers everything under one roof. Wish me luck that my ill fate transforms once I reach this place. Best of luck!

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bellaaideson

I am so sorry to hear this. I know you are hurt. Well, if you are comfortable so you can go for it. Well If you are comfortable with it so you can choose it. People are choosing it because it is safe. I hope you will be a mother soon. My best wishes are with you. Choose the best clinic for this process.

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