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Im out ...... chemical pregnancy.

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I'm gutted the tests have become lighter and lighter this morning not even a sqinter of a line so looks like a chemical. I couldn't have done anymore just can't believe we got so close. All that time money and effort for nothing. Got blood test Tuesday although really don't see the point? Feel like AF is on the way. I'm gutted. X

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Olivia1980xxx

Oh no Hun I'm so sorry 😔 U had 3blastocyst put back ...did u have any extras like endo scrach or embryo glue ? With my last cycle I had I use embryo glue . This all Journey is so stressful ...I know 😔 Xxx

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Blondyboo in reply toOlivia1980xxx

Yes embryoscope embryoglue and assisted hatching and I had the scratch

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Olivia1980xxx in reply toBlondyboo

U had pretty much every extras u can use . How was your blastocyst Quality Hun ? How many cycles did u have all ready ? I'm not a expert here but did u have a NK cells test? I don't know why but look like many clinic don't bother to offer that before treatment . We go through cycles with everything looking good and good Quality embryos sometimes put in two and nothing ... and I hate when they saying "well it's happens "...no I don't take that kind of answer ...it must be something more they can do checks ... xxx

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Blondyboo in reply toOlivia1980xxx

Good quality blastos this was our second IVF first was my egg but didn't fertilise. This was donor eggs from a 23 year old.

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Olivia1980xxx in reply toBlondyboo

Oh no Hun ...😔 The first one was your eggs now was donor and good Quality embryos and every extras u can use ... I don't really know what to say Hun ...😔My first cycle I had they put one blastocyst grade b and morula ..didn't work. I ask my self why and what else I can do "better"for my next cycle. I had my sec cycle start in end of July and I ask for NK cells and all extras . She say I don't need NK cells and scrach just embryo glue if I want .. This time we use glue one grade A blastocyst put in and one freeze . I still cannot believe that I'm 9 weeks but if turn diferent I will definitely pay Money to do extras test like NK cells maybe . Xxx

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Missy_22

Sorry to hear your news! You couldn't have done anymore. Take time to relax and look after yourself. Xxx

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72cloud9

Oh no Hun im so sorry. Was really positive u were going to have a good result with this.if af not here by test day, still go in tho just to be sure.hope ur hubby not working this weekend so u can look after each other.big hugs xxxx

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katya38

Oh no blondyboo. But I thought your test date isn't until Tuesday? You could still get a positive result. Did the previous test def say you were pregnant? Any bleeding etc? Keeping everything crossed for you xxx

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Blondyboo in reply tokatya38

Blood test is Tuesday. Yes had positive 6dp5dt but it just got light and light and today 9dp5dt it's gone. X

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katya38 in reply toBlondyboo

Oh no it really is awful this whole process. You did everything you could. Take it easy over next few days. I know you said you didn't freeze any but will you try again? Really feel for you take care xxx

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Tugsgirl

Sorry to hear this 😞 x

Really sorry lovely, me too. Beta now only 24 today😥

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DC13

Oh no I have just read your post. I am crossing everything that your blood test on Tuesday says something different. You know you have done everything possible hon. I really hope it is not a chemical pregnancy. Try and hang on in there. Xxxxx

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Macca13

So sorry to hear your news. Hope Tuesday is better news for you. Hugs to you xoxo

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San1510

Hi Blondyboo .

I know I shouldn't say this but how can you be sure when our test dates are Tuesday .

I deliberately haven't even got pregnancy test kits in the house as I don't want to test before Tuesday morning.

I have everything crossed for you hoping you are wrong and both of us get a BFP on Tuesday .

I am hoping my angels/guardians or whomever it may be is listening to my positive prayers for everyone...it's my birthday today so God has to listen to me ( I hope )

Stay positive my dear...will wait for good news xxx

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Blondyboo

Hi San, you can tell as the pregnancy hormone HCG shows up in urine tests and can show before your test date. It gives you a heads up and I chose to test before bloods before the treatment started. I feel I'm prepared now and already looking at what to do next and that makes me feel better. Don't get me wrong I would love to be proven wrong and it will be a happy moment Tuesday if I am. However I'm expecting it to be bad and started getting my head around it.

I know some don't test at all until bloods are due and good for them if that's what works for them. It just doesn't for me. I need to know what's going on as soon as I can but that's just me. X

I hope you get your bfp x

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San1510 in reply toBlondyboo

So sorry.. I'm such a novice .. Didnt even realise that would be accurate.

Nurses just told me to test on Tuesday morning and to call them if I wanted blood tests as well.

I deliberately haven't read anything apart from nutrition when it comes to IVF and pregnancy .

Normally i would like to know the nitty gritty details of every thing in my personal and work life.

Feel like such an idiot now, so sorry .

But still hoping a miracle will happen

Sorry and big hugs xxx

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Blondyboo in reply toSan1510

It's fine Hun this journey is just such a pig xx

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Tugsgirl

Big hugs to you 💕

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Jaky76

Xxx sending lots of love xxx

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Cinderella5

Ahhh so sorry to hear that you've not been successful, what a massive blow for you both!! Sending you a big cuddle! Look after yourselves!💔xx

Really sorry to hear this, stay positive and hopefully in time you will find the strength to try again xxx

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