had a Laparoscopy and Hysteroscopy just before the weekend due to PCOS. They did ovarian drilling on one of my ovaries and was told that the PCOS is not severe at all and there is no endo but one of my fallopian tube is severely damaged and the second one is a bit leaky. I was devastated to hear that and have been crying ever since. Surgeon wanted to clip my tubes but did not have my prior consent so did not do it. Wish they had asked my prior consent as i may have to go through another lap to have them closed/clipped now ;(
i am now told to try naturally for couple of months to see if i conceive but any pregnancy now would need to be very closely monitored due to a high risk of an ectopic pregnancy which could be very dangerous. I am further advised that if no success within couple of months, then i must go down the IVF route. My chances for natural conception are minimal and will most probably need to go down the IVF route with my partner. I already blew all my savings/credit on these 2 procedures and pretty sure (after doing tons of research) that my local CCG will not cover my IVF as my hubby already has a child from previous relationship. Although the child does not live with us neither have i ever met her. Its so unfair of NHS and i feel totally helpless ;( what should i do, change the areas and move to a new town where they accept IVF for someone whose partner already has a child? will it work? i am so desperate for a child but all the doors are being shut on my face !! I'm crying as i write this...
I got a follow up consultation appointment on Friday to have the stitched removed at the same time. what questions should i be asking my surgeon? Please help