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IVF surrogacy: is it for me?

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I have been thinking about this a lot given I cannot carry children naturally. It's a difficult, confusing and upsetting decision to consider. Here are my experiences maybe this will ring true with some of you.

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donnamur450

read you article, very informative. When my surrogate mother was pregnant I was thinking to start blog and tell everyone what is going on. But I was busy at work plus I fly to Ukraine to see my surrogate mother and stay there for some time.

I would say I experienced something wonderful. I have my baby now and very thankful to the girl who carry my baby for me. I had many stressful days but at the end I'm happy, my family is full now.

I wish every ones story finish like mine

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Charliebishop in reply to donnamur450

I'm very happy for you :) I'm pleased it has all worked out so well. I'm sure I'll get there at some point.

I'm pleased you enjoyed the blog I have found it so helpful to write my thoughts and feelings down :)

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KimDerr

for me and my dh, deciding for surrogacy was also not an easy thing to do. but all all other means, ways and methods are exhausted, did we have other way out? No. in any case, all our worries and tortures don't matter any longer since the time we took our babies in our hands for the first time

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Lady_in_red

the toughest thing for IPs about surrogacy is to realize that you're out of control

youre merely in control of nothing

still many happy stories like the above prove that the game is worth the candle

good luck to everyone intended

like me (we're reaching our safe stage - huh!)

x

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JacobRacn

Hello! Surrogacy is absolutely safe if you deal with a right provider. finding gestational carrier on your own might be much risky than trusting a clinic. if you decide, please be very thorough in choosing your provider. contact only proven clinics with good overview and lots of successful stories. If u have time and money to travel, you may visit several clinics you're opting. they usually don't take any charges for introductory consultations. you'll have a chance to ask all of your questions. thus it'll make your final decision more grounded. this is actually how we did in our surrogacy journey.

Be careful and good luck!

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lizastorm

Read your article completely .it was very informative .thanks for sharing it with us .surrogacy is the wonderful experience of women's life .it bring happiness in the life of infertile couples .it is a blessing for infertile couples nowadays . I hope everyone get their happiness .

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