Aww well sh*t happens 😘

So 14hrs travelling pulling/lifting a 30kg suitcase is not the way to get a bfp... or at least it didn't work for me. DH doesnt want to do it again & tbh im bruised inside (feel it putting utrogestan in) so I've had enough too.... DH has said he'll do iui with donor sperm so now working the costs out for that & of course the UK adds ridiculous costs on so about 2/3 the price to go abroad 😂😂😂 laugh or I'll cry!

Weird to think about having a complete strangers baby it would be ours so DH really wants to try it.

Good luck to everyone else xx

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  • Sorry to hear this. Make sure you look after each other and give yourselves a break.

  • So sorry it didn't work for you this time. Good luck with whatever you decide to try next xx

  • I'm so sorry to hear your cycle wasn't successful. Right now just be kind to yourselves. Don't make any hard or fast rules whilst you're upset. Allow yourselves time to get over the disappointment of this cycle not working. Maybe you will get some answers why this cycle has not worked in your follow up appointment. Regarding donor sperm I believe that there is a donor conception website which explains any questions you may have dcnetwork.org also as I'm sure you're be aware clinics will offer you both counselling to be sure you're making a decision that is right for you both. It's a difficult and very emotional decision to make. But I've always thought there's more to being a parent than an just egg or sperm. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. I'm sure you're both make brilliant parents and any child would be lucky to have you both 💞 x x x

  • I am so sorry it didn't work for you. Be kind to yourself and look after one another. Xxx

  • Sorry to hear that! Thinking of you!

  • No no no I am so sorry honey thought this was it for you as only skimmed the post and saw BFP.

    I send massive hugs your way xx

  • Awww so sorry to hear this. Look after yourselves xx

  • I am sorry this time hasnt been successful. Wish you good luck with yr decision

  • Sorry to hear it wasn't your time, after all your efforts xx

  • I'm so sorry! Make sure you take some proper time to relax and recuperate before you regroup. You are unbelievably strong xxx

  • I'm really sorry to hear you got another BFN. You don't need to rush into any decisions.

    I found the Donor Conception website very helpful in getting my head round using donor eggs. You would have to have an implication counselling session before you're allowed to use donor sperm.

    Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

  • Sorry to hear this, sending big hugs ❤️❤️

  • I am so sorry to hear this. Love.

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