So 14hrs travelling pulling/lifting a 30kg suitcase is not the way to get a bfp... or at least it didn't work for me. DH doesnt want to do it again & tbh im bruised inside (feel it putting utrogestan in) so I've had enough too.... DH has said he'll do iui with donor sperm so now working the costs out for that & of course the UK adds ridiculous costs on so about 2/3 the price to go abroad πππ laugh or I'll cry!
Weird to think about having a complete strangers baby it would be ours so DH really wants to try it.
Good luck to everyone else xx
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So sorry it didn't work for you this time. Good luck with whatever you decide to try next xx
I'm so sorry to hear your cycle wasn't successful. Right now just be kind to yourselves. Don't make any hard or fast rules whilst you're upset. Allow yourselves time to get over the disappointment of this cycle not working. Maybe you will get some answers why this cycle has not worked in your follow up appointment. Regarding donor sperm I believe that there is a donor conception website which explains any questions you may have dcnetwork.org also as I'm sure you're be aware clinics will offer you both counselling to be sure you're making a decision that is right for you both. It's a difficult and very emotional decision to make. But I've always thought there's more to being a parent than an just egg or sperm. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. I'm sure you're both make brilliant parents and any child would be lucky to have you both π x x x
I'm really sorry to hear you got another BFN. You don't need to rush into any decisions.
I found the Donor Conception website very helpful in getting my head round using donor eggs. You would have to have an implication counselling session before you're allowed to use donor sperm.
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