Hi my name is Kelly and I'm 37 years old. I have a little boy of 6 years old who I love more than life itself. I've always wanted to be a mum and had to have tests before my little boy as after nine years of trying and one missed miscarriage nothing was happening. My periods stopped two years ago and no one could work out why? I had full blood tests done and only a under active thyroid was found. I also had a internal scan done and was told everything was ok. I then had a period on 13th April just gone and was over the moon but I haven't had one since. I was given Metforim and told to lose some wait to see if that kick started my periods. Nothing happened so I had another full blood test done. I was told yesterday that it has come back showing that I am menopausal (I'm 37) I am completely deverstated. I sooooo badly long for a baby.
I read on the internet that you are classed as being over the menopause if you have gone 12 months without a period??
(I had one in April so does that mean that I still have a chance of having a baby?) If my eggs are no longer any good could I find a egg donor and still carry a baby myself? If I have no good eggs and I can't carry a baby then I have nothing to offer anyone (like a surrogate) so does that mean that It's the end of the road for having a baby? I can't get any answers from anyone. The doctors are telling me they don't specialise in it so can't comment and I can't get an appointment with the hospital for another eight weeks and that's with the doctors sending a urgent appointment needed fax over this morning. My time is running out fast and I don't know what to do. Please can anyone help. I'll do anything. Thank you xx