Feel lost

[SuzanneAM]

Had two positive pregnancy tests on Good Friday so happy, decided to take another two the last two days and they where negative......... Don't know what to think other than it has failed?

[Hidden]

Hi i am so sorry to hear that Suzanne. Are the pregnancy tests the same hcg level? If the other two you have just taken are higher the pregnancy may not not have that much hcg yet. It is very early days and I would get a very sensitive test and try that. If you are using same tests I would contact your clinic. I would anyway they maybe be able to do a blood test to see what's happening. Finally want to wish you the very best and hope you get good news. Thinking of you and sending you a massive hug here if you need a chat X

[SuzanneAM]

Just been confirmed by hospital that it was a fail, it was nice to think for three days my dream had come true. Me and my husband are devastated we are lost 😢

[rainbowbreeze80 in reply to SuzanneAM]

This journey can be very cruel at times, sorry it turned out to be bad news.. Big hugs xx

[Hidden in reply to SuzanneAM]

SuzzanneAM I am so so sorry to hear your sad news I'm gutted for you. Infertility is a very cruel illness and when you think it's over to do this is so unfair on you both. I know there are no words that will make it feel better I guess time is a healer and I hope in time you feel ok. Take time out to feel these emotions and maybe consider some counseling to help you both come to terms with this. Some ladies on here have said counseling can help. In time you can decide where you go from here just coz it didn't work out this time dose not mean it wouldn't work next please don't give up hope.right now tho you need to grieve this loss. Sending lots of hugs your way. Take care of yourselves. Here for Hun X

[pm27]

Sorry to hear this cycle has failed. I had a negative test on Wednesday after our second cycle of ICSI. Although we knew that the 2 embryos weren't great quality I really hoped we'd be lucky second time. The embryos on our first attempt were good quality and it still failed.

Do you get a follow up appointment to discuss next steps? Last time we had ours too soon after the negative test and I didn't know what to ask the consultant so this time we've left it for a couple weeks to see the consultant and I'll be taking a list of questions/queries with me.

Infertility is very unfair and it's ok to feel like that after a failed cycle. Take time to recover physically and emotionally and keep talking to each other. It probably feels really rubbish at the moment but gradually you'll feel stronger.

Take care.

[Hopeful1982]

Oh SuzanneAM, I am sorry to hear this. I know there's nothing to say that can make it better. Take care of yourself and your hubby x

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I am sorry for you both Suzanne and pm27. I start again in May with ICSI this and although I feel positive I feel really scared and this is outlast attempt.

Hugs to you both 😘

[Filmgirl101]

I had the same thing happen a few days before you. It's devastating, it's like a dream come true slipping from the tips of your fingers. Almost yours, but pulled away at the last second. I'm Really sorry. give yourself time to grieve and be kind to yourself.