feeling lost

[peanut61]

it’s been only two days since I had my frozen transfer ! No symptoms yet but I know it’s to early

And I keep pottering around not knowing what to do with myself

What ever I am doing it’s drives you mad !

I have been cleaning , sewing , films , walks

Seemed so strange that it’s in there

what do people do with selves ?

This is a lot worse that taking the medication

Sending Baby wishes to everyone

[Rainbowretrieval]

good luck peanut! Like you I try to do everything but think about it. Try not too read too much into no symptoms, you can have them and it doesn’t work out anyway x

[peanut61 in reply to Rainbowretrieval]

oh thank you x yes you are very right there

A lot of the symptoms are masked as the drugs we are taking gives you a lot of symptoms on its own anyway x

[Rainbowretrieval in reply to peanut61]

Very true. All pregnancy symptoms are the same as symptoms when you are due to come on your period- so mean! The hormone stuff can trick you as well. Nothing’s easy is it 🥲 x

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hang on in there ! Just try to keep busy - read a good book or re read your favourite ! Go for long walks see the budding trees Eat well - drink plenty of fluids - rest when you can Take any meds you were given as directed

Take care of yourself

Janet

[Islandgrl]

I feel you peanut 😩 I had my double transfer on Tuesday. Apart from some cramping, spotting & a deep stitch like pain day of transfer ( likely from procedure) after that I have felt absolutely nothing, like it never happened.......... To the point I have convinced myself Im out this round!!! Hoping we both start feeling better asap!!! Sending you lots of baby dust ✨✨

[peanut61 in reply to Islandgrl]

oh my I had mine to on Tuesday as well at 1 pm.

I had a chance for a double transfer as well but I decided on one this time as my first try , so many choices and it’s hard to make a quick decision at the time .

I had a bit of cramping after the transfer as well , but nothing since x I guess we are worrying as it’s very early yet x

[Rainbowdreams82]

Hey I’m on my 2ww too and managed a week of feeling ok and sane and now I can barely think of anything else. I started getting period type cramps on 8dpt so thought game over. I caved and tested on Tuesday afternoon and got a faint second line on a cheap test. Repeated the next morning and got similar. Then I really couldn’t think of anything else. Bought a FRER and tested this am with a darker positive. Terrified after a chemical last time and had more cramps today but also some tightening feeling.

The 2ww is torturous! Just try to keep busy and get through the first week. Sending you all the positive vibes. When does your clinic say to test? Mine says 15dpt but no way I could’ve waited xx

[peanut61 in reply to Rainbowdreams82]

hi I think we are all going through the same thing we just got to keep positive x

I was wondering are you pregnant as you said you tested early? Or are you know waiting until day 15

My date to test is the 11 th day in the morning. I am not looking for that day it’s making me feel sick already .

Sending love to you x

[Rainbowdreams82 in reply to peanut61]

well I technically am as have 3 positive tests but just terrified of a chemical after my last one so testing every second day until official test day 15dpt on Tuesday.

Good luck and hope you manage to keep busy and switch off from it xx

[peanut61 in reply to Rainbowdreams82]

bless you will be thinking of you xx big hugs to you x thank you yes I will try x

I had a few chemicals but that was when we was trying naturally x so difficult to know as well xx

[MammaMia86]

After one of the transfer I was 100% sure I was pregnant my boobs were on fire..... I kept telling my husband that my boobs are talking🤣🤣 I did a couple of tests and they were positive ..... but a few days later I had a BFN when i did the blood test..... so symptoms can be deceiving.

I am saying this while I am also on my 2WW and looking at all the symptoms.....

I recommend walking and I like audiobooks and crafts, I found the distracting.

Best of luck🤞🤞

[peanut61 in reply to MammaMia86]

hi so really having symptoms or no symptoms we can’t tell with way just a waiting game

I have been doing crafts to keep busy which I enjoy a lot x and I also love doing the diamond art

Sending love to you xx hope everything goes well for you x

[Twiglet2]

good luck 🤞🏽 I find work distracts me during the day and then all the things you described is what I try at night I’m usually okay until about 6 days later and then I lose my mind and become a proper maniac for the next few days 🤪 so not sure I can help much but just to say you are not alone in how you feel 🤗 fingers and toes crossed for you xx