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DEVISTATED!! :-(

I got a positive pregnancy test on the 2nd and a couple of days ago I had some slight spotting and a small amount of cramp, I rang the clinic to reassure myself and they told me to come in for a blood test to make sure everything is ok. I wasn't too worried till the next day when they rang and said my pregnancy hormone level had gone down to 19. They told me I would be having a miscarriage and to stop my medication. They want me to go back next week for another blood test. I haven't had any medication for two days now and I haven't had ANY spotting/bleeding or any pains at all. I know I am loosing my baby as the clinic have told me this but I just cant get my head round it as I feel totally normal. I feel totally confused and heartbroken.

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Oh no so sorry to hear this xxx

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You poor, poor thing. I hope you and your partner are looking after each other. X

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I feel so sorry for you I feel your pain same thing happened to me last year it's heartbreaking

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I'm so sorry to hear that this is happening to you.. I know there are no words that can comfort you right now.. Just to say in thinking of you and take care xxxxx

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I am so sorry. After all you have been through to get to this point. I have been following your journey and it breaks my heart that this is happening to you both x x x x sending big hugs x

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Sorry to hear this having been through it myself Hun. There are no words. Life is pretty unfair on times. Here if you need to vent :-). Xx

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Oh Jill I am very sorry to hear this very sad news my heart really goes out to you. Although my pregnancy was ectopic I can really understand and feel what you are going through. My thoughts are with you. Love Tasha x

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My heart goes out to you. It's heartbreaking. It happened to me last October, and you just feel desperately upset and it is confusing yr right. On the day I started bleeding I felt fab, really good. But that's the strange thing about our bodies.

I'm not surprised yr confused as you've only had spotting/slight cramps. I must admit Jill I did get a lot of blood loss from day 1 right up to 9 days. And a lot of bad cramping, but then I have got adenomyosis. Please take care and look after eachother. It will take time to get over it. Just allow yourself that time and don't think you have to "just get back to normal" you both get through it YOUR way and on yr terms. Love to you xx

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I'm so sorry to hear this. I've had 2 miscarriages so can understand your pain and confusion, there's nothing anyone can say that makes it better but I found it helped that people acknowledged it by expressing sympathy.

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Hi Jill

Nothing I say can offer any pain release or stop the confusion, I was following your post and hoped only to hear your progression, so sorry to hear this....

Look after both you and hubby take 1 day at a time, scream about cry when you want to just do t hold it in.

Wishing you the best for the future

Thinking of you xxx

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Thank you very much for the lovely comments, I feel like until the miscarriage starts I cant move forward, like i am stuck in limbo. xx

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Hi Jill

You don't need to think about moving forward at the moment, just one day at a time that has really helped me get through the last few weeks. Look after yourself. Tasha x

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I am truly sorry to hear your sad news. We had a similar experience in September. It will take a while for your body to deal with this both physically and emotionally. Take each day at a time and do whatever your body tells you it needs to do. Find strength in each other and look after one another xxx

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So sorry to hear this Jill. Nothing I can say will make it better but please just look after yourselves just now and don't do anything you don't want to or feel up for.

Big hugs to you. Xx

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Hello. I'm am very sorry to hear this. But I do know how you feel. I lost our baby at nine weeks. that was three weeks ago nearly. It's awful time. So Take care. Lots of love to you both. Im here If you need to talk. Pm me. But it will get easier sweetie. Lots of hugs to. ️Xxx

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So sorry to hear this Jill, can't imagine how your feeling. Sending lots of hugs xx

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I am so sorry Jill. Thinking of you both. Take care xx

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