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Well we got a BFN today. We can't do it again so that's it for us basically. Its been a hard four year battle which we haven't won. It's a horrible, horrible feeling. We are going to plan our wedding now and get on with our lives together childless. Good luck to everyone else who is going through the very stressful and emotional ivf journey. Thank you to everyone's advice and support. This is a really good website for that.

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LRH001

I am so so sorry to hear that. It is the saddest thing for a women to have to go through. No words can even come close to making you feel better.xx

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Soconfused07

I'm so sorry xxx

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jsth1979

I'm really sorry to hear this... Had so much hope for you. For all of us. You do right to focus on you and husband to be and to do something together.

Best wishes to you xx

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Louiemac73

So sorry to hear that. We're going for our second and final icsi v soon and wonder if we'll be in same position. I hope you are able to move on and find some peace x

sending you love xx

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hannah_banana

We reached the end of the road last month. It's hideous, devastating. Allow yourself to grieve but don't let it consume you. Take care.

Hannah

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Belle-7-

Speechless Hun. My heart feels heavy , but marriage hey ☺️ Enjoy every min of it and go travel try to see some wonderful places. My love to you. Xxxx

it's a hard one to accept and I can empathise with you..so sorry it didn't work out. I hope you have lots of support around for you and your partner. But starting a new journey and plans of wedding is very exciting and who knows what the future holds x

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pumpkin1

Thank you everyone for your kind words and support. It's just so hard to believe that my dream of many years won't be coming true. It's hard to see everyone with their families and think they just take it for granted that they didn't have any problems. I want to tell them how lucky they are. We are yet to decide where to go on holiday and where to get married (going abroad) but at least we have a few things to be going on with. Back at work Tuesday. Bit of normality I guess.

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Nat1991

I'm so soo sorry! Xxxx

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