:-( unfortunately I miscarried this week juat a day before my 12 week scan. I was told my sac measured 10 weeks old but they didn't know

When baby passed. Were gutted. So as this is my second miscarriage ( the 1st was a natural pregnancy with a ex partner) I asked consultant if theres something wrong with me. He said no it just happens. That wasnt a good enough answer for us so we demanded any tests they could give us. Which they granted with snarls as they said they dont allow any tests until you have had 3 miscarriages ... im going to wait for those test and try icsi again next year. . Take care everyone x

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  • OMG I am so sorry to hear this! what a sad thing to happen after so many weeks. sending my love your way xx

  • I know its tragic I thought all would be fine with a grade A embryo. Its just makes it worse as we saw a heart beat at 7 weeks:'(

    Im going to try focus on other areas in my life for a bit. Join a gym etc and try isci soon xx

  • Yes with a grade A embryo you do think everything will be fine but some even on day 5 don't go all the way, look at me I had a 5 day blastocyst transferred at really good quality and it did not implant at all! look after your self. xx

  • Oh sum1sweeta I am so sad to read this post. We all know it happens but it is so horrible when you watched each other's progress and there is good news then this. Well done for pushing for the tests. Look after yourself xx

  • Really sorry to hear, I have been following you on here and remember when you got your BP. To get all this way and finally feel relieved that its worked to going for your scan and being told this. Heartbreaking. Its worse when they say these things just happen because all you see around you is pregnant women. I'd say you still have every reason to believe it will work for you, just a case of when but I just had my first failed FET yesterday so I cant give the best advice - Take care and keep in touch x

  • I am so sorry to hear your sad news, sending lots of hugs and thoughts your way :( xxx

  • so sorry to hear this :( hope your ok look after yourself xxx

  • Thank you all for your kind words xx

  • I know how you feel I've had 3 miscarriages I had all the test and they told me there is nothing wrong. Im now 6 weeks pregnant with icsi but I can't be excited because of what I've been through before.i hope everything goes well for you xxx

  • Hey maccerpops I was only thinking of messaging you this morning to see how you are after last week. Hope your getting through this ok and as best as anyone can xxxx

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  • Oh im so so sorry to hear this sum1sweeta!!! I am totaly lost for words, i can feel your pain.....i was followig ur posts and progress from the beginning. Please stay positive and keep on trying. My thoughts and prayers are with u.

  • I'm so so sorry to hear this, my heart goes out to you. There is nothing I can say I guess but try to do all the positive things you know you should and it is NOT the end of the road. Sending loads of love xxxxxxx

  • I have tears in my eyes reading this!! Like others I have been following your posts and was so pleased you got a BFP... I'm so so sorry to find this out!!! You seem like such a lovely person it's just too cruel for something like this to happen... My thoughts are with you at this sad time.... Please be kind to yourself and fingers crossed it will work on the next round xx x x x xx x

  • Sorry to hear that hun, hope your ok xx

  • Thanks everyone for your kind words and support... we will be ok its a difficult time but my husband and I have definitely decided to try again as soon as im well and ive had all the tests. X

  • so sorry to hear that. I'm going through a miscarriage at the moment (8weeks) and have just make contact with Rosalind who is lovely. She has lots of videos you can tap along with:

    miscarriage-support.com/

  • I just feel so so sad for you. Take care. xx

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