I've just joined the site and I'm really just looking for someone to talk too. Me and my husband had been trying for a baby properly for around 4 years before that we'd been doing nothing to prevent a pregnancy for 6 years.. We then decided it was time to seek help and discovered my tubes were blocked and contained fluid that would hinder any IVF chances, I've now had my tubes removed and also lost the 2 stone I had too I also had a bad result on my hormone test and only just made that criteria. I just need to talk to people going through the same things, although my husband is wonderful he can't understand how I feel because this is my fault.. We can't have children because of me. To make it worse a lady where I work has just fallen pregnant at the drop of a hat she's 11 years my junior and already has 1 child and although of course I am happy for her it makes me feel so inadequate. Any way I've rambled and lot sorry just anyone that can offer some advice or support or a kind word... I'm not coping well with all this and worry I'm slipping into depression tears come fast.