Hi, I’m new here. My 8 year old son was diagnosed with an irritable bladder a couple of years ago. He was prescribed Oxybutynin and is currently taking 5mg 3 times a day. He still has accidents though both during the day and at night but not if we’re on him, reminding him to go every couple of hours! I can’t decide if it’s the condition or laziness! Recently, however, it’s stepped up a gear to include soiling himself which is horrific for all! He’s taken to hiding soiled pants as he’s so embarrassed and it’s really starting to effect his confidence. At first I got cross which I know is terrible, poor love, but then I started wondering if the 2 issues could be connected?! This is how I got lead here! Would be great to hear from any other parents of older children and learn about your experiences and what’s worked for you. He’s an amazing little boy but I can really see this having a huge impact on him socially!