I am not wasting my breath for an argument about this just yet with my partner but it has been quietly bothering me. I am awaiting my lap date (endo suspected, not confirmed yet - hence not having an in depth discussion). I have said to my partner that this may mean we have to start our family fairly soon as endo can lead to infertility/longer times to get pregnant, growing back/scarring up tubes etc. He has always just shaken his head and said no I don't want a family now, I want to wait until we have a mortgage first (that will be years off for us). I've tried to say to him just bear in mind you may not have that luxury but let's not talk about it too much now.
However it is bugging me a bit. I know someone must never be forced into kids, but at the same time I am a little upset that he doesn't seem to understand the implications of this condition (I have told him several times the above re. fertility/surgeons usually suggesting getting on with starting a family after a surgery/'clean out' etc.)
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you manage it?
EDIT - I meant to say that we are getting married very shortly too