Hello. I am 22 and in my final year at uni. I will graduate in june 2016. I have endo and have had heavy periods along with many other symptoms since i was 13. I had a miscarriage this time last year and have struggled ever since. All i think about is babies and whether that was my last chance to have them. I dont think my broodiness is helped by the fact that doctors have been telling me to have a baby to help things since i was 15! So me and my bf have been talking about having a baby sooner than we'd originally planned. We were thinking after March this year. This gives us both time to make sure our bodies are a bit healthier than they are now. However this means putting my PGCE on hold as I'd have to take time off in my PGCE to have the baby. This doesn't really bother me. I have a job and worked out that even with my current hours I alone could raise the baby whilst paying rent etc. To me being a mum is much more important than anything else. My bf doesn't agree. he said that he wouldnt like to be with someone who just worked in a shop. I would wait until after pgce but you have to take into account the actual pgce, nqt year, a year settling into your job so realistically thats 4 years! I dont want to miss my chance of being a mum
Any advice? Any of you done a pgce or had to choose between kids or a job/ education?