Just letting you know the site will close

[chloe40]

next Tuesday, 18th April 2023 at 11am BST / 6am EDT for around 30 mins.

Chloe

[kenster1 Volunteer]

nearly had a heart attack on my first reading.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to kenster1]

I did say don't panic Kenny 😊

[kenster1 Volunteer in reply to chloe40]

is it site maintenance that`s happening.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to kenster1]

Yes indeed Kenny kenster1

[kenster1 Volunteer in reply to chloe40]

cool noticed you posted on drink free as well is it all forums or just certain ones.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to kenster1]

The whole site Kenny kenster1

[Hidden]

Thanks, Chloe

[Hidden]

So, this is ALL communities?

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Hidden]

As far as I know Hidden but is only around 30 mins, so not too long <3

[Hidden in reply to chloe40]

Ok, thanks.

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

🙄3o mins break Norw may give my phone chance to recharge 😁

[chloe40 Administrator]

That's not so Hidden

He was still your father first and foremost <3

[Hidden]

hi chloe and cat yes some would not bother if had broke ties completely for many years before died, and bad abuse, i had a gap of 5 years lost ties with my dad he was always good to me but after mam n dad divirced due to his sometimes abuse towards her due to him not been able to take his drink and temper never hit me, but i was often on edge and in councelling was told im.anxious now as was as a child and i only ever had relationships with men like my dad somewhat and as in my mind it was normal to be in abusive relationships as this is what i grew up with, i kept in touch with my dad after divorce but he was busy doing his own thing and mam re married and it just became left too long kinda thing, a chance meet at opticians with a man running the local shop said i recognise the name as irish, a lot have died from.asbestosis from.dock working is your dad ok, with this i went to my dads in panic after mam had also said you must go, luckily he was ok had the lesser form.polar plaque, we were really pleased to see each other and i invited him for tea regular and when he was housebound id go once fortnight i didnt like going as he was a horder and his house effected my asthmah his temper was still there and hed go mad if i tried to clean or throw stuff out,i didnt realise until later he had start of dementia the mouse infestation enabled us to throw stuff out, didnt intend to say all that, my mam.had a split with her sister many years ago and with good reason and we dont even know if shes dead or alive, families they sat blood is thicker than water but in some cases not, you have to do what is right for you follow your heart im sure your dad regrets his abuse to you, my mams dad abused her and he came through in a spiritual way through a medium mam saw he apologised💛🌟

[chloe40 Administrator]

Thank you Hidden

So sorry you went through such distressing times <3

[chloe40 Administrator]

You had to do what was best for you Hidden

[Skyp]

Cheers chloe 👍