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2 weeks since my dad passed suddenly, funeral tomorrow. Really hope I can hold it together, want to be strong. Scared of seeing the coffin, knowing he is inside, my lovely wise Dad x

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ENMORSE profile image
ENMORSE

iam so very sorry sending love and prayers to you and your family

GoGo_JoJo profile image
GoGo_JoJo

💖 try to hold onto the thought that only his earthly body is in there, his eternal spirit is right there next to you and in your heart. 💫

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L1974 in reply toGoGo_JoJo

I really hope so ❤️ thanks

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chloe40Administrator

Hi L1974 Here’s a big (((hug))) from me, it’s a horrible time for you, we’re all thinking of you and sending love & support to get you through.

Cry if you want to, let it go ❤️

Please don’t be afraid of the coffin, try and focus on saying something loving with your goodbyes, something that you will remember with love.

Here for you

Chloe

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Caza

Will be thinking of you tomorrow. Big hugs x

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kenster1Volunteer

sorry to hear about your dearest dad thoughts are with you all.it can be very hard but having good memories are ways of getting us through a difficult day.

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KT22

Sending a big virtual hug, try not to think about the coffin & remember your wonderful Dad will always be with you in your heart & memories. Xx

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Dempo

I hope you manage to get through the day OK. The coffin is just a box for earthly remnants, your Dad is not really in there, but he is in your heart, and in the hearts of all those who loved him, for as long as you are all alive. I hope you are comforted by having family and friends around you.

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klr31

💜

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RoseyViolet

I hear ya... that's a tough one! It's okay to NOT be okay and to break down. That's a huge loss of a man who meant the world to you. Praying for peace and guidance throughout this grieving process. It truly is a journey and one that is personal and unique to you. Give yourself time to grieve and go through all the stages, there are many. Deep breath... breathe....journal any conversations that you would have liked to have with him. Write to him as if he is right beside you, it helps. I hope you find comfort as you journey through this season of pain and loss.

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GoGo_JoJo

How did it go? Are you coping?

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L1974 in reply toGoGo_JoJo

Hello it went well, we gave him a good send off. Today my hubby is back at work, I am off this week so just trying to keep busy. Have a call with the consultant who was treating my dad in hospital at 4, just to understand what went wrong to go in with a minor stroke and not come out. It’s not going to bring him back but it may help to know?? Thanks for checking in 🙂

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GoGo_JoJo in reply toL1974

Oh that is good 💖 yes, personally I have found information and knowledge comforting. Take it easy, try to remember to eat and hydrate. 👍🏻

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L1974 in reply toGoGo_JoJo

I am eating now, didn’t much the first week but I have an 8 year old to look after so got to keep well.

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GoGo_JoJo in reply toL1974

Exactly that 🤗👍🏻 and of course your Dad would want you to keep healthy!

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L1974 in reply toGoGo_JoJo

Thinking of going back to Zumba classes this week?? Is it too soon? X

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GoGo_JoJo in reply toL1974

No! Exercise is great for helping get back to some kind of normality! Don't be surprised if you get the odd, weird wave of emotion though, just roll with it.

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GoGo_JoJo in reply toL1974

Did you get back to class? Has it helped a little?

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L1974 in reply toGoGo_JoJo

Yes been this morning also, did me good but had a really sad few days, realisation I think

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GoGo_JoJo in reply toL1974

Yes, it hits in small doses. Glad the class helps a bit 💖

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