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Happy birthday Dad! I miss you beyond words 💙

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I have been incredibly sad lately. Thinking of & missing my dad. Today he would’ve been 65. He should be here. (He passed at 63). Work distracts me and I keep busy because it is too sad. I love you dad forever and I truly believe I will see you again. 💙

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Rachaelbratt

Thinking of you 😘

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Lperica10 in reply toRachaelbratt

Thank you!

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chloe40Administrator

Hi Lperica10

Really sorry for your sadness, it has been a tough couple of years for you. You are taking the right course by keeping busy but take time to remember and celebrate your dear Dads birthday and anniversaries.

Keep in touch{{{hugs})

Chloe

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Lperica10 in reply tochloe40

Thank you! I don’t always post anymore but I read on here when I can. I’ve lost so many people last year.. my dad (cirrhosis), my cousin (car accident), my husbands best friend(work accident), had a miscarriage, my stepbrother(overdose). I can’t do it anymore. Thanks for your support.

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chloe40Administrator

Oh Lperica10 how awful for you, this is just too much for anyone to cope with, I'm so very sorry that you have suffered such pain.

You would really benefit from bereavement counselling or ask your doctor to refer you for talking therapy for such complicated grief. Do stay in touch.

Thinking of you

Chloe x

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Lperica10 in reply tochloe40

Thank you. I did see a therapist but haven’t went in a while. Last time I went she said I seemed fine. (But that doesn’t mean I don’t want to go to her just because I’m managing). Thanks again.

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chloe40Administrator in reply toLperica10

Exactly Lperica10 you must do what you feel you need.

Take good care of yourself.

Chloe

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kenster1Volunteer

thinking of you also.happy birthday to your loving dad in heaven.god bless you all.

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Lperica10 in reply tokenster1

Thank you!

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1tuppence

Lperica, please count yourself well hugged and loved.

Grief is so painful isn't it? and you have had a lot to deal with this past year, as you say. Sometimes it all feels so very difficult, and unbearable. Please know you are cared for and are not alone.

Where Love is, the link is immediate and everlasting, simply a thought away.

Godbless.

x

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Lperica10 in reply to1tuppence

Thank you for reaching out and for your kind words. 💙

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Greyone

My sympathies to you on the anniversary of your loss. Dads are great and so consoling when we need a shoulder to cry on. I hope you have plenty of lovely memories to keep you going through the day. Good luck.

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Lperica10 in reply toGreyone

Thank you. They are great. 💙

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Karynleitner

Great picture . I agree, he Should be with you. So sad you lost him, how blessed you were to have such a wonderful dad. I hope someday your love and memories can dull the sadness. A part of him is always with you.

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Lperica10 in reply toKarynleitner

Thank you so much. A lot of people on here give my comfort. Thank you.

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